03-20-2007, 03:34 PM
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I Lied!! Please Help Me Asap!!!
ugh, ok please help me!!
about a month ago my guy and i got in a huge fight about how many people i'd been with and orininally i said 1 which was true, then he didnt believe me caus i seemd more expierenced. So he said its too isnt it, and yelled at me, and said if i didnt admit it, it would be over. Well i changed it to two which was a big lie. well now i tried to tell him it is really just him and now he wont believe me caus i lied!! how do i show him he can trust me again, i dont wanna lose him, but he is threatening breaking up! we both 19 and im head over heeels and i shouldnt have lied but did. im sooo scared. he says im a liar and he doesnt trust me anymore. HELP!!!  Last edited by mishsa; 03-22-2007 at 07:36 PM.. 
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03-20-2007, 03:43 PM
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First, you do not tell anyone how many men you have slept with, it's irrelevant and none of their business.
Two, tell him to grow up, he's not going anywhere & if he does, he does not love you.
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03-20-2007, 04:49 PM
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OMG he sounds scary!!, if he's putting this much pressure on you when you didn't lie it seems he could fly off the handle about anything. You should just tell him what you've told us, honesty is the best policy, excuse the pun
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03-20-2007, 05:03 PM
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I dont think anyone on here can make a case on why you should keep such a tightwad in your life.
seriously there is more important things to be worried about in life. like asking yourself how is sharing your life with someone like this going to improve your quality of life. You want advice? keep on lying, every time he asks, add another number to your count. He is acting like an immature child so treat him that way and turn it into a joke. If he cant see the error in his ways, then f the bs and move on
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03-20-2007, 05:04 PM
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ok so...
i was honest, and told him exactly what i told you.and he is like, why would you say two then go back to one, and i explained caus i said two i just stuck with it, ITS REALLY JUST HIM!!!!, caus we werent fighting y'know.. but now he is like ITS OVER.
should i answer his calls?? should i make an effort to show him i love him still?? WHAT DO I DO?? Last edited by mishsa; 03-22-2007 at 07:34 PM..
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03-20-2007, 05:11 PM
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This is such a trivial bs reason to end a relationship.
Consider the possibility that this is just his excuse to get out of the relationship. If you feel that shoe fits, than move on and hang out with different/new friends until you get over it and its officially in your past If you do want to continue the relationship i would suggest to be very stern and up front about his imature actions, i would not take him back with undoubted loving arms, this is all very riddiculous and you need to show enough self respect in yourself to confidently convey YOU WILL NOT! tolerate such an immature attitude ever again.
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03-20-2007, 05:18 PM
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Just leave him be, let him think about what he has done, you take control of the situation.
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