Is it really over

[pw-pwb]

my girlfriend recently ended our relationship, I've tried to call, but she won't answer the phone, should I take this to mean that it's really over, or should I give her some time and try to see her in person.

[LittleFury]

Let her be, otherwise you will come off as a freaky psychotic stalking ex. If she changes her mind, she can come to you, especially since she was the one that did the ending thing.

[eldiablo_si]

Not knowing your particular circumstances, the short answer is yes. It is extremely hard to get BACK into a relationship and make things work out anyways. Trust me, been there done that. It's not like you are starting fresh. All of your mistakes will still haunt you and all of your previous problems will re-emerge.

[Godiva]

I have to agree with Eldiablo si. Ending a relationship does not mean "I want to take a break" or "I don't want to talk to you right now." It's over, so you should move on.

[EvilEvilKitten]

It is OVER!
Take the hint, guy!
Move on.

[bruins76]

Since you didn't give details about the length of your relationship or why it ended then I'd say, let it go. If it's meant to be, she'll try to call you. I'd just leave her alone, you will come off as needy & annoying if you continue to do so. I'd say that the next holiday, maybe send her a "friendly" card, nothing romantic or I miss you, just "hey"...happy what ever the holiday is. If she still holds a torch for you, she'll give you a call. If you hear nothing back, then I'd really let it go. Easter's coming up (depending on religion), send her an Easter card, something cute & simple. See what happens & take it from there.