Cum fetish with my wife

[Bhobbs00]

My girlfriend, before I was married, love it when I would cum on her face and breasts, or in her mouth while I watched. It was never in a demeaning or machivo manner, it was always just a fun dirty thing we did once in a while. This really turned me on more than anything. My wife is a little more conservative. She does let me cum in her mouth during oral sex and I also pull out on her stomach, but I like to watch and take it a step further. I have mentioned it to her is the past and she said its fine as long as it doesn’t get in her eyes which is cool. However, I don't know what the best way to go about it would be so she is not surprised and so she can be comfortable with it. If you could please let me know I would appreciate it thanks.

[madeye]

well i think if you start the sexual activities with a kinky theme/vibe

then good chances are ending it with the same will have a much more comfortable natural transition.

i mean if your just having average typical sex, and then at the end you throw her the curve ball of all of the sudden putting pressure on her to have pressurized ejaculate aimed at her face/mouth.... um that may catch her off guard and turn her off cause she wont be in that mode.

so start it kinky, and then maybe you can try telling her in the middle of your kinky sex

"im going to cum on you, and i want you to tell me where"

if she gives you a lame response maybe even call her out on it and say something like "you can do dirtier than that, so tell me where"

im young and have never been married, so maybe a married person has a better idea that would apply to a women who is a bit more conservitive/sensitive than the young women i have been sleeping with.

in my experience this is what i have to offer

[specialsaucesunshinegirl]

Tell her you want to cum on her face because it really turns you on.

But do not cum in her eyes. Cum in your eyes stings like hell.

For women: If your guy likes to cum on your face, go to the store and get yourself a cheap pair of reading glasses then wear them whenever he cums on your face.

[Sirene]

Originally Posted by specialsaucesunshinegirl

Tell her you want to cum on her face because it really turns you on.

But do not cum in her eyes. Cum in your eyes stings like hell.

For women: If your guy likes to cum on your face, go to the store and get yourself a cheap pair of reading glasses then wear them whenever he cums on your face.

Or you could just wear a pair of goggles, equally as sexy.

[dancingdoc2]

> I have mentioned it to her is the past and she said its fine as long as it doesn’t get in her eyes which is cool. However, I don't know what the best way to go about it would be so she is not surprised and so she can be comfortable with it.

The above ideas are OK, however, it seems that the basic premise is being ignored.

First, she has agreed to give this a try, so, when you want to do this, tell her and if she agrees, you have your approval.

Second, let her know when you are about to "blow". You know, so tell her that you are about to cum and this will give her the needed couple of seconds to prepare.

Third, Is that if she is watching you, and she has some familiarity with your body language, she will know when you are about to ejaculate.

This brings you full circle. Talk to her, first, acquire her approval, and then go for it.

[Lovesdesire]

rofl , swimming time eh :P

[Sirene]

Originally Posted by Lovesdesire

rofl , swimming time eh :P

lmao good one

[specialsaucesunshinegirl]

Originally Posted by Sirene

Or you could just wear a pair of goggles, equally as sexy.

Hey, some guys like women with glasses. Well, okay, ask him to aim low on the first spurt and work his way upwards on successive spurts. That's reasonable. But in any case, she'll likely automatically close her eyes out of a reflex action from the first spurt. I find it very difficult to avoid that closing my eyes reflex action myself even though he tells me when he's going to start cumming, so cum in eyes is rarely a significant problem. But when it is, ouch it hurts. Also, if you like to watch his cum spurt out of his cock while he's cumming on your face and he's also a lousy aim (some of that cum can fly unexpectedly far and who wants to limit where it flys off to anyway, not sexy to do that), then whatcha gonna do?

[sera300]

I am thinking those swim goggles or the ones you wear that are OSHA approved might be REALLY sexy...lol!

[bruins76]

If your wife doesn't like it, don't do it, that simple. Everyone's different & I don't mind my DH cumming in my mouth but to put it on my face or boobs or anywhere else other than in my mouth or inside of me, I think it's degrading. That's just me. I know my DH would LOVE for me to allow him to do that but I know I'd be upset & I'd resent him in the long run & I'd feel dirty & nasty.

As far as her saying "you can cum on my face, just not in my eyes"...men cannot control how high or fast the cum comes out, especially if they're super excited. I had a man once go to cum on my mouth/face & got it up my nose!!! OMG, it hurt like heck & I was pissed! He didn't mean too & felt bad but I was angry for a while. To this day I wont allow it b/c of how it made me feel.

Do you want your wife to feel gross & dirty like a whore? if the answer is no & you value her, then don't do that, okay? My take on what you posted is that she doesn't want it done to her & she's "thinking" of allowing some action to take place in that manner b/c she wants to please her husband. The part that you dont' realize is that once you do that to her & she feels like you are treating her nasty or slutty, she's going to feel horrible inside. Do you want that to happen based on being turned on?

It's okay to have fantasies & like certain things being done but ppl sometimes just don't want certain things done to them, they want to keep the thoughts as a fantasy, not actually acting on it. Like my DH always likes the idea of a 3-some & I like the idea of being DP'd but we'd never do it b/c of the consequences after the fact.

I've had sexual experiences prior to my DH that have turned me on as well that my current DH will have nothing to do w/, sure I'd like it, but I am not going to press the issue if he's uncomfortable w/ it, KWIM?

Unless she asks you to do it, let it go, it's not necessary to maintain a healthy sex life. It's not like you can't get off any other way. Respect your wife's wishes & don't go there.

JMO, HIH & GL
~C