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[kt8768]

im 16 and theres this guy. our parents are realllllyyyy good friends and were together all the time alone.we really like each other and we hook up without people knowing and everything but theres one majoorrrr problemm. he 23 and thats illegal. i dont know what to do any suggestions?

[demonbuttercup]

Ummm
I would stop it now before anyone finds out. It could cause a HUGE rift between ya'lls parents... and he could end up in jail.

[sera300]

And you know it's illegal because you checked the state laws? Or are you basing it on assumptions? I have to admit though the gap in age between 16 and 23 is significant, so just let it go and keep it quiet (what has already happened).

[madeye]

Nobody here is going to question your affection and attraction to this person.

your young and discovering the fun of dating, attraction and sex.

BUT

I have serious questions of why a 23 y/o is sleeping with someone so young.

He should be smarter and more mature than that and the age gap is significant cause of monumental shift of maturity between someone who is 21+ and someone who is younger than 18.

So even if your able to keep this under the radar and get away with this, you will mature in time and discover this guy is not worth it.

Seriously ask yourself, what the **** is wrong with this guy if he is sleeping with women still in highschool.

[demonbuttercup]

Well how long have you 2 been together??
What is the guy saying??
I mean usually if you are trying to hide something you are doing... then deep down you know its wrong!
I can see a 16 yr old girl being attracted to an "older man"...and like Madeye said... he should be the smart/mature one of the group. I am sure he's attracted to you... but should he be??

[EvilEvilKitten]

Chill out. You're only furthering your education. But don't expect it to last. I'd give it 3 months and then I'd move on. At this stage, you should not be seeking much more than that. Yes, it is illegal since he's an adult and you aren't.