Bondage questions

[RF4569]

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[sera300]

I found there is not real way to get over both being submissive (as a whole); although, perhaps give it a try when one of you is feeling particularly bold. Try holding off on having sex for a bit, I know I am more aggressive & demanding if I have not have sex for a few days--that's generally when I might tie him to the bed and have my way. When sex is more frequent, I lean towards being submissive & love it.

Ask Evil...heck she is the dom...

[RF4569]

Ok, giving her that checklist is the best thing I have ever done!

[sera300]

What responses have you had from her?

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[sera300]

This is why I love e-mail! It's a good way to open up doors and both can write openly, leading to better discussions when you are face to face. It takes some of the inhibitions away and provides a nice distraction from the corporate world! Have fun!

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[EvilEvilKitten]

Submissive and dominence are just terms used to describe patterns of behavior. You can act either role in a play situation fairly easily. Do not make the mistake of thinking whips and chains now. Subtle foms of roleplay are just as satisfying.

Go to one item on your list. On of you will act as the dominant- taking the lead. You can take turns doing this. Study up on the subject and plan a scenario - how to begin, follow through, and how to end. Some of your items, such as anal sex, lend themselves to the male dominant role. Just how it is.

As you get more experienced, you will find that switching your roles, dom to sub and sub to dom, will become easier and you will become more confident and secure lovers. There is a lots of trust that needs to develop so do not rush this.

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