What would you do?

[Beans518]

Okay. I want to know the real deal. Anyone who's read my last post already knows my situation.What I wanted to know was, if your partner came to you and said that your sexlife was bad and that it's been bad for a while now and that thier sorry that they didn't tell you sooner but they didn't know how to bring the situation up to you and was affraid it would hurt you and the relationship, but it's really starting to bother them, What would you do? Would you try to work on it Or would you say forget it because they should have told you sooner? I want to know, Because I don't understand why someone wouldn't work harder to prove that they are good in bed.

[sera300]

I would apologize for appearing unapproachable, and FIX IT!!!!

[lbh1971]

I wish I could tell you what you need to do. All I can tell you is that I would work on making your sex life better. I found out too late how important a good sex life can be to your husband. In the end, you may rediscover your passion for it.

[Beans518]

My fiancee is the one who's bad in bed. He says he's satisfied.

[lbh1971]

Then it may be him who will regret it in the long run. He really should try to please you....you never know what you might enjoy.

[Beans518]

I know that's the problem. If I say use me how you see fit, I'm your canvas. What guy wouldn't LOVE that

[lbh1971]

Every guy would love that. Is he open to counseling? Or on-line learning like this site could help.

[Beans518]

We're in counciling, but evey time I bring the issue up, he changes the subject.No he would not be open to this site. He'll say something like it's just a place for females to nag. Every problem we have is my or somebody elses fault.

[sera300]

Beans, beans, beans...you already know the answer!

[Beans518]

I know. I just can't wrap my mind around why he/ someone wouldn't want to fix the problem.