Do most women touch themselves during sex?

[chickymonkey]

I'm just curious to know if most women touch themselves during sex. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and have a great sex life except that I think I could enjoy it more if I felt comfortable enought to touch myself. For some reason, I just cant bring myself to do it during sex. I can do anything infront of this man and talk about anything but can't bring myself to do this. Do you think he wants to see me do it? What should I do?

[Matador]

I do think is a very sexy thing when a woman touch herself during sex, there is nothing better than the feeling of being with some one at a level of excitement so high to the point of touching herself. Too bad I don't know many women like that but I'm sure your partner will appreciate if you do that for him.

[coveresid]

I recommend you go ahead and touch yourself during sex. I love it when my wife touches herself and enjoy watching her do this. I would like it if she would masterbate in front of me and give me a show, but she won't do that. I am still hoping we could do this for each other. What does happen though is when I give her oral sex and she is really turned on from it, I will guide her hand over to her clit or vagina and let her rub herself or finger herself. It find it very exciting that she is rubbing herself and recieving maximum pleasure from it. She also likes to rub her clit sometimes during intercourse. She likes me to stroke myself when she is giving me oral. She usually will grab my hand and pull it over to my penis so she can watch me rub my shaft while she moves her mouth up and down it at the same time. It is a turn on for her and I love doing it for the feeling and show for her. Maybe there is some hope we will masterbate in front of each other sometime.

[foxdan]

My wife does it most of the time and it is a turn on for me and her I like to see how she touches herself as so I can imitate it the next time

[chickymonkey]

Thanks for the advice. Sounds like I'm cheating myself out of some fun...him too. I'll try it...I think.

[bruins76]

Do what feels right. Up until now (w/ my DH) I never did that or felt comfy enough to do it. Now I a fine, I can masturbate in front of him, I can play w/ myself while he's penetrating me...it doesn't matter & it DEFINETLY turn's him on!

Do what you want, and only what YOU want that feel's right. Don't do something just cause he wants you too. Make sure your comfy otherwise it wont work.

HIH, GL
~C

[EvilEvilKitten]

I never touch myself during sex, thank you - I'm far too busy TOUCHING HIM!! One of the biggest turnoffs for men is a woman who NEVER initates sexand/or NEVER reciprocates during sex. Reciprocates meaning that you give as good as you get. Better to focus less upon yourself and more upon him on a physical level.

[coveresid]

EvilKitten is right about a woman initiating and reciprocating. Not much of a turn-on if they just lay there. However I do like to watch her rub herself, it is a turn-on for me and for her to do that she is showing some inititive and the fact that she is really enjoy the sex to let her guard down and actually touch herself. Otherwise it never happens. So for me it is a visual thing for me to enjoy and a good indicator she is really into the sex. It doesn't happen very often, so it is something different for me to enjoy.

Love the avatar EvilEvilKitten.

[sera300]

I will not touch myself...I find no satisfaction or pleasure in it. However, if he get stimulated through the visual and asks I will but it does nothing for ME. I derive pleasure from the wonderful touch only a man gives me...cannot beat it.

[cyclefreak]

Yes, EEK is right about that. I like to touch, and to be touched. You touch someone a certain way, they respond and touch you, you respond to that, etc... Its a kind of dialogue.