Need Advice Please Help

[careya1989]

I have been with my bf now for 7 months and i am still a little shy . i don't know why though.. what should i do ... he wants me to be on top and i am just to shy and don't know if i am doing it right....

[browneyedgirl]

Don't worry about it. There is nothing to be shy about, he wants you and thinks your body is hot - if he didn't he wouldn't be having sex with you. Plus, he will understand that since it is new to you, you might not be mindblowing at first. Remember, sex is supposed to be fun and playful.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Relax this is not The Olympics and you DON'T have to be PERFECT!
Sex is fun - or it should be - not something to stress over.
Take a deep breath and jump on in! The water's fine!

[dancingdoc2]

Making love is not what we do to each other; rather, what we do with and for each other. Like your relationship in general, the art of making love is also a partnership. Explore, learn, and do things together.

Moreover, with every new partnership there will be a new Square One from which to begin with likes, dislikes, preferences, and other things to work through. Even if one or both of you are experienced, this only equates to knowledge, not skill. So, do not fret or worry, just work together and expect that things will not always go as expected every once in a while. Sex is serious business, however, you should not take it so seriously that it upsets the proceedings. As noted, above, it should be fun so do not kill the mood by getting upset when things don't necessarily go as planned. Laugh it off and get on with the fun and the lovin'.