My Husband is Ticklish... down there >_<

[MilitaryWife104]

Caressing a man's scrotum is supposed to be enjoyable, from what I've heard and read. But what happens when that man is FAR too ticklish for me to even TOUCH THEM?!

My husband is in the U.S. Army, and we're newlyweds. He should be home some time next month, and I want him to "feel at home." One of the things I've been TRYING to do is for a number of years now, and any sort of contact I make with it just sends him into a frenzy of laughter and twitching. Is there any way I can help him get over that, or am I out of luck in that department?

[sera300]

What if you try it when he is highly aroused? I found if men are that sensitive in the beginning after some good oral (avoiding the ticklish area) the laughter changes to moans...

[MilitaryWife104]

Now that's what I thought too... get him during most arousal...

THAT doesn't even work... it seems like I've tried everything. -_-

[MilitaryWife104]

Any other suggestions?

[cyclefreak]

But what's wrong with laughter? Playing with one another's ticklish spots is a lot of fun.

[MilitaryWife104]

It is fun, and I do take advantage of that when I can...

But for him it's unbearable... take your most ticlish spot and multiply it times 10...

Guess I'm stuck -_-

[sera300]

I guess then leave the area alone and concentrate on other's!!!

[MilitaryWife104]

He wants me to try, so... I'm not giving up yet

[LittleFury]

You can try to caress it a little harder. A lighter touch can sometimes be ticklish. With me, if you touch me light enough I can be ticklish anywhere, and I mean every inch of my body including my tongue. So maybe you just need to find what amount of pressure you need to use for it to be pleasurable, instead of ticklish.

[dancingdoc2]

I go along with the latter. Ball playing has various aspects to it. The first is to massage the scrotum and to also gently pinch a piece of skin between thumb and finger while rubbing. The second is to scratch an area of the skin using one of two types of scratching. The first is to use a "come her" movement of the fingers; the second is a "back off" movement. The finger nails will gently scratch the surface and provide two distinct sensations depending upon the action used. You can do one or more of these actions to different parts of the scrotum's sac. To scratch, just pick up a piece of the sac. and stretch it between your thumb and fingers, then scratch. That's it for the scrotum.

What you can do with one or both testicles, later, when he is right on the brink of an orgasm is to take one in your hand and gently squeeze it. Now, guys, before you go "OH NO", please understand the method to the madness, so to speak. There is a fine line between pain and pleasure and it is this condition that can be arousing when properly done.

Here's the key: The testicles are much more sensitive to impact than pressure. Ordinarily, when we are not aroused, a gentle squeeze will cause a mild although annoying little ache. When this is done when we are very aroused, this same ache is perceived by the brain to be extremely pleasurable. It is this ache that can be used to jump-start an orgasm, particularly an elusive orgasm like the second or third in a multiple string.

Here's the trick: Practice squeezing a testicle when he is not aroused and stop when he states that you are causing this annoying ache that has yet to become really painful. You do not want to do that. Then note how much pressure you are applying so you can duplicate this when he is approacing his orgasm. The ache will then seem pleasurable and it will augment or intensify those sensations he is experiencing from your other caresses being done at the same time.

Massaging the prostate gland has the same effect, although there is no pain involved--just the "after burner" kick to whatever else is being done.