Is my husband bored?

[2002?]

My husband and I have been married for five years together for seven. He has always been the one who could never get enough sex(I was on medication that gave me no sexdrive), now I'm off the meds and I just can't get enough. He never would have turned me down two years ago. Sometimes I think he is having an affair but he is so against it I then think no. I use to hate giving blowjobs but now I have relaxed and I kind of enjoy it so that is not the problem. I have had two kids since we got married, but I am not fat or ugly, I have actually much prettier now that I was then. I tried wearing the sexy clothes, dancing for him, being on top more but it just seems like I just don't do it for him anymore. I am probably just seeing things wrong but I thought an outsider point of view might help.

[Matador]

Originally Posted by 2002?

My husband and I have been married for five years together for seven. He has always been the one who could never get enough sex(I was on medication that gave me no sexdrive), now I'm off the meds and I just can't get enough. He never would have turned me down two years ago. Sometimes I think he is having an affair but he is so against it I then think no. I use to hate giving blowjobs but now I have relaxed and I kind of enjoy it so that is not the problem. I have had two kids since we got married, but I am not fat or ugly, I have actually much prettier now that I was then. I tried wearing the sexy clothes, dancing for him, being on top more but it just seems like I just don't do it for him anymore. I am probably just seeing things wrong but I thought an outsider point of view might help.

Have you ever asked him about this? About what he likes or if he wish something special? You know, some time ago my gf got a book called "101 ways to please a man" she got reeeeaaaaally goood ideas. If you already try everything, try leting him 1 month without sex and see who will be the one asking for sex.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Talk to him!! Talk to him!!! Talk to him!!!

Is he willing to work with you on this or not?
If so - good!
If not, you know what you have to decide next.