dildos and my girl

[sexycouple]

my girl has a crazy sex drive and me i wud say normal. she gets onto me at times and has suggested her geting a dildo and i hate the thort as i find they ave an unfair advantage over me, am i right to think this??

[unknown11]

if she has a better sex drive then you then allow her to have one. because unsatifyed girls will sometimes try and find fun without you knowing

[toyfairy]

What advantage are you speaking of? Sex toys can bring whole new adventure in to the bedroom for both of you. Go with her to pick one out. Before you go talk to her about it. Let her know your worries about it. If it is a size issue tell her that it would make you feel better if it were comparable to your size. Or what ever the issue you are having with it, just talk to her about it and be honest. Then go with her to pick it out and make sure that you use it together once in a while. You might be surprised to find that it isn't the way that you thought and you might find yourself enjoying using it on her as well.

Toys are great to play with but they can't replace the human touch.

[sexycouple]

i am freighteneed that she will come out with me and never want sex any more, i dont change myh posiion on this, jus wanted to know if i was the only 1. advatages are, they vibrate twist round be 12 inches long change shape, all of which i cant do

[oldkinky]

No danger of her not wanting a real dick. I love to watch my wife use a vibrating dildo as it goes in and out of her vagina, but she still wants me to f**k her. I love to see her cum using a jack rabbit type(Purple Titan) vibrator. One thing that we like to do is for her to give me a blowjob while she uses a dildo and we fantasize that we are having a threesome. Toys are great, but they don't replace the real thing.

[bruins76]

Welcome to my world!!! Dildos are just plastic things that can make a gal (or guy) cum easier/faster. It's not that she's cheating or wants to cheat. She is simply stating that she wants more "sexual" pleasure & since she isn't getting it all from you she is willing to tolerate it (she clearly cares a lot for you) and tell you that she wants to have a toy.

Almost EVERY gal has sex toys, not many don't. It's like you masterbating, I am sure you've done it when she is not around, should she be jealous of you for doing that??? Girls like penetration & w/ out a dildo or toy, it's hard to accomodate that need. Men just need some baby oil & their hands & voila...their needs are met.

I don't think you should feel upset, jealous or angry, I think you should be proud of your lady for being honest w/ you. And just think, you can use it on her the next time you 2 have sex, this way you are partaking in the toy itself, so you're not intimidated by it. KWIM?

I do know what you mean when you say that you feel weird cause she is pleasuring herself w/ out you, you almost feel like you're not good enough, you feel horrible about yourself. I felt this way when I was pregnant in my third trimester, my DH wouldn't touch me, but he was rubbing one out all the time, I knew what he was doing and it hurt me a lot, especially considering that I offered to give him a blow-job daily if he wanted one (according to him I am the best)...any who...he didn't even want me to do that. So I knew that my weight gain had turned him off & it hurt that he was wacking off to porn on TV. So I guess I know what you mean...perhaps you are hurt or insulted?

Just be 100% honest w/ your lady about your feelings, try to involve the toy when you two have sex next time so you have the satisfaction of involving yourself in the act w/ the new toy and take it from there.

I wouldn't be upset about it. Most woman have them.

HIH, GL

[Fleetwood271]

Hey Man,

Don't worry - She'll still want the real thing. My wife and I have 4 dildos. All 4 are different sizes. The smallest one vibrates and the next size up did until it just stopped a couple of weeks ago. The second one is about normal size. 1st one is pretty small. Then we have 2 monsters. One is the Kong. It is a realistic and has ball and hair. It's very big! I love to f**k her with it! She likes it too, but it's almost too big for her. What's really fun is when we 69 and I **** her with it while I'm licking her clit. She has cum with it inside of her while I'm performing oral sex on here and it's amazing. She's full of c**k and is having a great orgasm at the same time.

The last one is actually longer than the Kong, but is not quite a realistic. It's also hollow and is just barely big enough inside to slip over my penis, if I use some slippery stuff on it first. I like to slip it on me and then f**k her with it. It cumpletely fills her up!

Now having said all that, she says nothing is like the real thing! She says she had much rather have me inside of her.

Go shopping with her and pick out one together. It'll only make things better.

Get a vibrating cock ring while you are there. You'll both love it.

[underpressure]

My wife and I have many, different shapes, sizes and options.... she still likes the real thing more than any of them

[cyclefreak]

Where's the problem here? A dildo is not a penis, its a toy. If she wants to get one, then let her do so. Hey, why not go down to your local sex shop with her to pick one out. Its just an add on to your sex life, not a threat. Go along with it, and she will appreciate it, and you will both reap the benefits.