What do I do?

[BCS22]

I'm 20 and seven months pregnant and my husband wants to have sex all the time he wants to know whats wrong with me and why I don't want to all the time according to him all pregnant women are supposed to be horny all the time but I'm not? I just feel so huge and awkward! Is something wrong with me? any clues or hints to help us would be greatly appreciated I hate not giving him what he wants but I'm really uncomfortable with my body right now?

[browneyedgirl]

I think your best bet is to just explain this to him. There is nothing wrong with you, and it's not your fault. I always think it's funny when girls come on here upset because their partners have told them that they aren't feeling how a woman should feel. Now, a woman would know better than a man, wouldn't she? Has your husband ever been pregnant? Then why is he telling you how you're supposed to feel, as a pregnant woman?

You two just need to have a talk. Communication is always key. Explain that you aren't comfortable with your body and you feel awkward. He needs to be able to understand that.

That said, do you mean you are physically uncomfortable or psychologically/mentally so? I can totally understand both, but if you are more mentally uncomfortable with your body than physically, try to understand that your husband wants to have sex with you. This means that, despite all the changes in your body, he is attracted to you and finds you sexy. So, if you do desire sex, don't let your body get in the way of enjoying sex with your husband.

If you really just don't feel comfortable having sex right now, just explain that to him. Perhaps you could have oral sex or try mutual masturbation instead.

Good luck, and I hope this was helpful!

[BCS22]

Thank you for the reply we talked and are at least communicating on what we want from each other more!!

[EvilEvilKitten]

I understand you completely having been there - twice. But I agree that it takes a lot of gall for a man to tell a woman how she should feel. Imagine you telling him how he should feel!

Look if you don't want to have sex, then don't have sex.

Your hormones are all over the place and half the time you feel like a beached whale. Luckily for him, you didn't get mean like I did around this time. If he or anyone had looked at me cross-eyed, I would have ripped off their face and made them eat it when I was 7 months along. Feel free to tell him that and instruct him to thank his lucky stars that you're a much nicer pregnant woman than I was. A friend of ours when she was pregnant was sick - constantly- for the full 9 months! Each woman is different and the guys just have to deal with it. So suck it up, buddy!