Confusing question

[smilexelectric]

Well I was reading about something and it says that when a girl gets mad at you for looking at other girls that means she doesn't love you anymore. But my girlfriend got mad at me about this and I asked why, she told me it makes me feel like im not good enough for you. Now this whole thing has left me confused, wouldn't it mean she loved me if she wanted me to just look at her, and not other women? As of now im confused and it just does not make sense. Please help me.

Thank you
Josh,

[lurk]

What were you reading? Nothing is that black and white, and I think we're only getting part of what you read.

[smilexelectric]

2) She stops caring and stops acting jealous
After a woman stops calling you, more of her behavior starts to change. Most women are at least a tad jealous by nature. Most women deny it, but it's true. Women don't want to share their men with anyone, so they do what's necessary to keep them happy (this includes: baking a cake, going shopping with his mom, ironing his shirts, and oral sex).

So when your girlfriend or wife suddenly stops acting jealous or no longer does things for you, watch out. When she stops asking about your day or "getting mad at you for looking at other women", start counting the days. She's not in love with you anymore.

[smilexelectric]

She also says that she says she still gets a little jealous but theirs nothing she can really do about that she said. She doesn't ask about my day, but she shows that she cares in other ways and she still gets mad when she doesn't make me happy. She also told me if she didn't care about me she would turn her head when I try to kiss her. Confusing....

[Luvs2plzU]

Ahhhhhhhh so you are having problems "UNDERSTANDING" your lady...this always reminds me of this lil story....

A man walking on the beach was deep in prayer. Then God spoke to him saying that because he had always been faithful, one wish would be granted to him.
The man said he wanted a bridge to Hawaii so he could drive there. God said his materialistic wish was too difficult and it would take too many natural resources, and that he should think of another wish.
The man thought for a time, then said he wished that he could understand his wife, know her feelings, what she wants, and why she gives him the silent treatment and says nothing is wrong.
The Lord thought, then replied, "You want two lanes or four lanes on that bridge?"

[smilexelectric]

I dont get it. LOL. I just need help and this is all confusing...

[EvilEvilKitten]

The women who are jealous are afraid of losing you. When you look at other women she thinks you are 'window shopping' for a better woman. She fears that if/when you find one, you will drop her and go after that other/better one. She's waving a flag saying "I'm insecure!"

Mind you, NOT ALL women feel this way.

I share all of my men.

[browneyedgirl]

What you read simply isn't true. There are MANY reasons that a girl would do things like be jealous at your looking at other women, stop giving you blowjobs, or not want to go shopping with your mom anymore. Yes, jealousy can be insecurity, but I think it is pretty natural to feel some degree of jealousy about people who we love and care about. Wouldn't you feel jealous if your girlfriend were always checking out other guys?

It can make a girl feel as though you don't desire her if she percieves that you are more interested in or more attracted to other women than you are to her. This feels like a rejection, whether or not you intend it as one. In a perfect world, a woman wants to be admired and loved completley by you; she doesn't want you to think about lots of other girls, because she wants to be the special one.

So... make sure your gf knows that you love and care about her, and that you find her sexy and tell her all the juicy things you want to do to her. This will let her know that even if you sometimes check another girl out, she is the one that you want most. Once she feels comfortable with this idea, she won't have to worry so much about you looking at another woman every once in a while.

If her jealousy is becoming a problem, or if you feel that she doesn't trust you, you should have a talk with her and address this issue. Let her know that she is the woman that you want, and that she needs to trust you.

[smilexelectric]

Yea we had this talk already, I told her i'd do my best to break the habit and i said I would never look at a another girl like I look at you and I told her I would never break up with her or cheat on her for someone else. Im agaisn't it and I just love her so much. Every once and a while my eyes slip thats just because I was single for a whole year before I met her so its a habit.

[2002?]

I'm married and I don't walk around staring and saying sexual things about other men, but my husband like you thinks it's ok. If your truely happy you don't need to be looking around