I want a 3-way......is that weird?

[broncofaninwa]

Hi All-

I am a married bbw (big, beautiful woman) who is interested in having a 3-way with my husband and another man to fill a fantasy that I have had for a number of years. My husband is very, very, supportive and would love to see this fantasy come true as it has been a fantasy of his as well. I have never engaged in such an activity before but am really considering going to the next level. I am curious about a few things:

Is this desire normal?

If you have been in a similiar position, what did you do?

If you did engage, what was it like afterwards? Did you want to have another? Did you continue with the same partner?

How did you go about meeting the partner you had your 3-way with?

What did it do to your marriage if you were married?

Thanks for the help and advice!

:D

[sparco]

Do you mean three way with another man? Or another woman?

Both will have different effects.

[Sirene]

A cock in her ass, one in her pussy & one in her mouth.
God that's so hot.

[EvilEvilKitten]

It is fun! The extra sensory input is amazingly GOOD! Both of you have to agree on the additional males. Hunt together! The sequence begins between you and your hubby with the others gently joining in by sliding a hand onto you and then fitting in where they can as the action heats up.

[broncofaninwa]

I want the 3-way with my husband and another man.........

[ashleyhorny1]

dear, broncofaninwa.

i have had many threesomes, most were great but a few went bad. sometimes a guy gets weird when you go down on him right after you had his friend in your mouth!!. but for your questions?

1.is it normal? yes it is normal. 73% of women have this fantasy, and something like 56% of women would perfer two men over another woman.

2.like i said, l have had several threesomes( all male). first you need to set a few guide lines for your lovers. also ask your boyfriend or husband if he has any too. i had only a few things; no anal, no male to male stuff, no one can cum in me, and im in control. (positions and stuff).

3.what was it like after? well great, i go and shower and we all go out to eat. i still have the same boyfriend as when i started, but i have had several different partners (9). the first time i did it it was with my bf's friend and i loved it. my bf said he loved watching me with him.

4.after the first time with my bf's friend my bf asked me if thier was anyone i would like to have sex with, so i told him and we pick one out all of them and we invited him over and i started to play with them. them my bf would ask me if i would like this person or that one (most were his friends). i would have a threesome with that person a few times then move on.

5. well if you have the right person as a mate you can do anything. if i was you i would start off slow, like let your husband watch you give a hand job or a bj. then move on slowly, and always let your husband get a little more than the other guy.

[ImhereinCanada]

I have been in a relationship with a wonderful woman for a number of years. Early in our realtionship, she mentioned to me that her ultimate fantasy would be a threesome, i.e. 2 men and 1 woman. I told her in no uncertain terms that I could never do anything like that. My feeling didn't change, until recently.

For the past couple months, we have seriously discussed having a threesome with a good friend. I really want to give her her ultimate thrill! (I also feel it would be a thrill for me as well). We have discussd it with my friend more than once, and have decided to give it a try (none of us have ever done this before). Perhaps it will be a one-time experience, perhaps it will last considerably longer. We have discussed the don'ts and everyone has no problem with them. Of course, we know the dangers...broken relationships, friendships, etc.

I am actually looking forward to it. It excites me to think what I will witness and will participate in. Needless to say, the others feel the same way that I do.

My financee is extremely excited about it, and even discussed ways she wanted to please him (some of which we never try). We have since drawn the line on these. However, why would she be so keen on having another man this way, when we never attempt them? Did she just get caught up in the moment?? She is very excited over what will occur...more so than when it is just the 2 of us in the sack . Likely it is just the threesome experience that does this.

Also, she plans to buy very sexy lingerie for the occasion. I can't tell you how many times I have asked her to buy and wear sexy clothing for me, without success. She knows how I feel about lace panties! She told me it was such a new, and unique experience, for all of us that she has to dress very sexy. It does make sense. I want to hear from a stranger their take on it.

I am hoping others members can give me their feeling on her thoughts, this situation, my feelings, etc! She has told me she wants only the best for all of us, I am the only man for her and the one she will marry, how she wouldn't in a millon years cheat on me, etc. I have to say I totally believe her on all points.

We have discussed the questions I have risen here and I am fine with her answers.

Possibly it will be a wonderful experience for all of us and will last for ages!

Regardless, I am as excited about our new experience as she is. Are my concerns natural at this point?? What red flags should a person in my position look for??

Thanks so much for your time!!


rj

[EvilEvilKitten]

Imhere - you and she begin the action then he moves in and joins you. Gently now. nothing startling, nothing grabby and no rough stuff. Soft music, candles, make sure it is warm. Perhaps something to drink beforehand.
This is your first time so make it easy, fun, and special. Both men should be focused upon the mission here - which is her pleasure.

Anything else you need?