I'm madly in love with my wife

[carbheat]

Hello.

No real point to this post except this - I see a lot of negative threads involving marriage on the internet. I just wanted to put something out there that says - marriage is great. I've been married for 13 months now (I know, not a huge amount of time) and I'm loving it.

And just to keep this on topic with the board - and the sex is fun!

Thanks for tolerating my little aside.

[browneyedgirl]

Thanks for this post! I think this is really refreshing to see someone say something GOOD about marriage. Me and my boyfriend are very much in love and want to get married in the future, so this is very encouraging.

[smilexelectric]

Hey good to hear about you and your wife, hope all works well. I really love my girlfriend alot, its great being able to share everything with her and always tell her something thats been bothering me.

[tbryson2]

Yes, I agree, it is good to hear about positive relationships.

I've been married to my wife for 29 years now. I've known her for about 35 years. I think excellent times spent with her before we got physical, is one thing that led to having a long lasting relationship with her. She learned that she could trust me.

Yes, we have had our up's and downs, (physically and emotionally), but we have never had any knock down drag out fights. No future in them. We like to do our "own" things, but not at the expense of the other person.

I am a "servant" to my wife, and she is one to me. Always has been that way. I do get to do whatever I want, as long as it does not jeapordize our relationship. There is NO room for selfishness in a growing relationship.

Being open with each other has also led to a healthier sex life. But, any good relationship isn't totally about sex.

I've discovered that if I put my spouse's needs before my needs, things work out for the best. Of course, she has to do the same. Relationships cannot be "one sided".

[RayzorSharp]

Well we tied the knot on the 5th August and I have to say I love being married. My wife is wonderful to be with and we both work well together, Also we lived apart until a month before the wedding so that's been nice to finally be with each other all the time (barring work etc) People slag marriage down - and yeah I got all the jokes from my mates, but I think it's a great thing for a loving couple to do. Also I'm so proud and happy to have married such a beautiful and wonderous girl as her.


RS

[EvilEvilKitten]

Marriage is great! I am all for it!

Yes, there are times when I have come close to strangling him but then he makes me laugh.
Men can be such pesky people!

[learning]

As with many of the posts I too am happily married. Have been married for nearly 9 years and in a relationship for 16. Despite a few hiccups (cannot fool anyone or yourself, they do/can happen) we are still very much devoted to each other. We both have baggage which we brought into the relationship (previous partners experiences etc) but these are not dwelled apon. We are aware of them but they are left where they belong, in the past.

What amazes me about long term marriage/relationships is how people change! What did interest my wife 6 years ago (sexually and other) no longer does but what may have disgusted/scared her back then is very much a turn on now!

Enjoy the commitment to each other in every aspect and read tbryson2's posting again! Infact, read it every so often to remember what a commited relationship is about!

May marriage endure all!!

[Zan]

aww only engaged here, but cannot wait to finally tie the knot with the first girl i really cared for <3 and the first girl i told i loved her <3

marriage and love are so beautiful and amazing <3

[Newwife]

My husband and I have been married for 9 months. We are young and I am sure that everyone looks at us and b/c of the rapid rise in divorce they all think that we wont make it.
We love being married. We have sex everyday but that is not even all of it. We had to go through so much to be together and now that we have each other we soak up every single second.
It is almost like we have this amazing connection that can't be taken away.
What I think I love to is that no matter when we are fighting we are saying that we love each other.
I love that he is the one perosn that can make me so happy, passionate, and full of the most bliss imaginable. But he also is the only one that knows how to push me in a way that I just wanna smack him.
I know that sounds funny but I think that it is special and It is wonderful.
I love my husband and am so happy and can't imagine ever being away form him.

[James77]

Been married for 8 month's now. It's the best thing I've ever done in my life.Waking up next to the person you love and are going to spend the rest of your life with is the greatest feeloing.