One sided sex

[star49gp]

I have only been married for 2 months not even and me and my husband have been together for 7 years. Now he has told me on many times to open up about my sexual wants and stuff but the stuff we usually do is what he wants. Some of it is painful and at the sametime feels good but I don't want to do it everytime he touches me. He says well the more we practice the less pain but my thing is I don't want to be in pain or feel obligated or have him put a guilt trip on me so my question is How do I get him to listen without turning everything into what he wants and making me feel bad???
Any suggestions at all would be great.

[dancingdoc2]

Tell him what you told us.

If need be, make an appointment with a therapist specializing in marriage and family counseling.