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Well that is not a very specific post. But with me and my partner we just decided to be fully honest no lies no secretes and no half truths. Then we always know how the other one feel and where they are coming from. But one thing I know that has made all the difference in the world with us is that when I do tell him something i have been afraid to tell him he does not judge me or become harsh with me. It makes it easer to open up. He also is persistent he does not let me say never mind. Then he knows when and why I am mad at him. And when I tell him that something is a problem he does his best to make sure it does not happen again. But I also help him out tell him that something is not the right thing to say at that time or that if he reworded something it would not come out so accusing things like that. We have yet to have a yelling fight we discus things and then are done. And we always resolve something when it happens so it does not become personal. I hope that helps.
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