Making a Video for Ourselves

[Want_to_be _better]

My wife and I want to try something new. We happenned to get a new video camera to film the kids and are talking about filming ourselves having sex. Any suggestions? We haven't really talked about a theme or a set up.

[ua322]

Step one: use a different tape than you use for family gatherings.

Step two: Just press record and start getting freaky.

Step three: Upload it to this site and we'll provide feedback for you.

[fire1041]

Depending on how comfortable you are with your bodies, I think its great ! Woman always seem to critique their bodies after recording and then complain that their asses look fat or their bellies jiggle!! Who cares. There is something sexy about performing on camera. woman seem to want to do their best once they overcome the shyness. Have fun !!! send me a copy and ill let ya know how it came out !!( kidding) ps. you need lots of light to make it worth watching. I know that kinda changes the mood some, but I prefer the detail of seeing the penetration and so does my wife. Play with the cam, change clothes, positions, lighting and so on. always remember to erase.

[ua322]

Originally Posted by fire1041

....always remember to erase.

And by "erase", he means "upload".

[Brandye]

Look for sites that specialize in pictures of "ex-'s." You want to end up there?

[Jeff Stockie]

Originally Posted by fire1041

Depending on how comfortable you are with your bodies, I think its great ! Woman always seem to critique their bodies after recording and then complain that their asses look fat or their bellies jiggle!! Who cares. There is something sexy about performing on camera. woman seem to want to do their best once they overcome the shyness. Have fun !!! send me a copy and ill let ya know how it came out !!( kidding) ps. you need lots of light to make it worth watching. I know that kinda changes the mood some, but I prefer the detail of seeing the penetration and so does my wife. Play with the cam, change clothes, positions, lighting and so on. always remember to erase.

I agree with the Lighting comment.

[dancingdoc2]

Been there...done that....

Another suggestion is to use a good sturdy tripod.

[Newwife]

I think that if you are comfortable in your relationship than it is just fine. My husband and I have done it a couple of times. At first I think it feels like porn to the woman and sometimes that kind of turns her off. But when you watch it you think you look ridiculous. But your spouse will love what you look like and vice versa so it all turns out ok. I agree that you need good lights or night vision. LOL. It looks weird. (I know)
Just have fun.

[Want_to_be _better]

Now my wife is having second thoughts worried that she will look too fat even though no one else will ever see it but us. Thanks for suggestions though. Hopefully I can find a way for her to feel more comfortable about it.

[Newwife]

Trust me. We women can always find something wrong with our bodies. It is completely natural. I just had a baby 6 months ago and have gained weight since then.
Again make sure that you are comfortable around each other. Maybe let her video tape you first. Then watch it. That might ease the uncomfortable feeling of the situation.
But I still cringe sometimes when we watch ours. It’s normal. Just don’t pressure her about it. Bring it up in conversations spread out. Not all the time. It might make her more uncomfortable about it. Or even make her feel that she isn’t providing something to make you want this so badly