Its just the way I am......

[Gilmerro]

Alright my girlfriend and I have been goin out for a while now and we both love each other a lot, up until recently we would have sex at least every other time we saw each other. Lately she brought up that she is beggining to believe that I am just in it for the sex...I found it rediculous and offencive, I love her so much, I constantly show and tell her. I just cant help the fact that I am an extremely sexual person. After a few arguments I agreed to chill with the sex drive...but I'm going crazy here, its been about three weeks since we had sex, (I see her at least twice a week for long periods of time)...I love cuddling and just chilling with her but dammit I NEED SEX!!! How can I explain this to her???

[WallyLlama]

Ummm.... in case you haven't noticed, you just proved she is right.

You can help the fact that you are an "extremely sexual person." Start taking some responsibility for who you are. There are no documented instances I'm aware of a guy's balls exploding because he doesn't get laid.

Either get rational and work on the relationship with her (figuring out how you can both get what you need from it) or tell her you need to find somebody who will provide you with the sex you need to keep from going crazy.

[ua322]

Guess what, Gilmerro? It isn't going to change.

You have a a higher sex drive than her and 10 years from now it will likely be even worse.

So if you love her enough to cool it with the sex, then good for you. If you can't handle that then you need to move on to someone who is more sexually compatible.

[Browser]

Try masturbating? If the emotional aspect is there as you claim, then surely a little self-gratification will remove the problem.

[demonbuttercup]

There are no documented instances I'm aware of a guy's balls exploding because he doesn't get laid.

LOL
if this was true then wouldn't the entire male species be ball-less??

[WallyLlama]

LOL... I think exploding balls are right up there with the claim that giving BJs and swallowing will clear up acne.

[2hot4him]

Originally Posted by ua322

Guess what, Gilmerro? It isn't going to change.

You have a a higher sex drive than her and 10 years from now it will likely be even worse.

So if you love her enough to cool it with the sex, then good for you. If you can't handle that then you need to move on to someone who is more sexually compatible.

Trust me...if she can go 3 weeks without any and it hasn't bothered her, imagine it stretching into 3 months.....

I'm married to a man that can go months without and I am the one going crazy. Masturbating can only take you so far...

[Gilmerro]

Thank you guys for the posts, it actually is resolved now. The other day I talked to her and brought up the fact that we have ben having sex a lot less frequently, she said she knows and it was intentional. That is was somewhat of a minor "test" to see if it really is all about sex...she said she was going crazy to from the lack of sex and then shortly after that conversation we had, we went back to our old ways lol. So thanks again guys, problem solved now...

[ua322]

Great. Gilmerro is back to wall-to-wall sex while myself, 2hot4him, and others are still living in a sexual hell.

Glad to be of service!

[Luvs2plzU]

Originally Posted by Gilmerro

Thank you guys for the posts, it actually is resolved now. The other day I talked to her and brought up the fact that we have ben having sex a lot less frequently, she said she knows and it was intentional. That is was somewhat of a minor "test" to see if it really is all about sex...she said she was going crazy to from the lack of sex and then shortly after that conversation we had, we went back to our old ways lol. So thanks again guys, problem solved now...

Really????? a test???? sorry but what a manipulative bitch you have on your hands!!......sorry but that's how I see it....i guess if she continues to throw you the odd crumb here and there everything will be okay...I wonder what the next "test" is ???....I'm still shaking my head over this one!!