Marriage on the rocks

[Sweetrose]

I have been married for 2 1/2 years but we have been together a total of 5 years, I am now going to have a baby and I just found out my husband has been talking with other women and he has admitted to me it being true and now he is saying he is with me just until the baby is born because he doesn't feel for me anymore which means he doesn't love me anymore, I told him he doesn't have to stick around because of the baby and that I will still let him be a part of the baby's life and that if he is not happy with me he should just leave and he says he can't leave because of the baby, he is 9 years younger than me and this is my and his 1st baby, we are still sexually active and he still is very sexual with me what is going on?

[Browser]

Please... use punctuation. We wouldn't have invented it if it didn't have a purpose.

Try talking to him?

[ua322]

I'm sorry to hear about your predicament. I don't know that he's giving you any options. Does he have any interest in salvaging this at all?

[eddy]

He is a jerk. Its like he wants the best of both worlds, is he only sexually active with you when their is no other woman around. You need to get rid of him.

[Brandye]

"Talking" to other women??!!

[bruins76]

Let me tell you this...you don't need him. He's a loser and he wants to have sex w/ you cause it's convenient, not cause he love's you....he's already admitted to you that he's strayed on you & your marriage and he's only going to be w/ you cause of a baby? WRONG REASON!!! Leave, now...tell him to get out! STOP having sex w/ this man...he may be putting your sexual health at risk & your unborn child's health too. This guy doesn't deserve you and although it's hard to raise a kid on your own, I did it for 4 years and I got rid of the guy who got me pregnant & had been cheating on me for 2 years out of our 4 year relationship. I am so glad cause I am w/ someone who love's me for me, treat's me w/ respect and we have a child together & it's for the right reasons that we are family.

He's not worth it, trust me.

[Jaysey]

Ditto! Stop having sex with him immediately and get rid of him. This is not healthy. He's told you already that the relationship isn't even worth saving to him...let one of those other women deal with it.