Curious and wanting to know

[aBITcurious]

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and are interested in trying anal sex. It's never been an issue with me and I always thought it was kinda gross. Well, I overhear people talkin about it alot and I got curious. So, my BF and I talked about it and are going to try it.

My question is: will it hurt after the first time? I mean, I know I will feel some discomfort and maybe a little pain the first time we try it, but I would like to know if it will hurt just as much if we try to attempt it a second time? Does it take some time getting used to it or does it come natural after the first time we do it?

Any advice would be helpful....

[Luvs2plzU]

http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/plea...-anal_101.html

[bruins76]

It hurts... A LOT! I tried it for YEARS before I could enjoy it and now that I am w/ my guy it hurts more cuz he's larger than anyone I've ever been w/ so the 1 time we did it I bled out of my butt for 2 days...like a damn period!

Anyways, lubrication is key and I'd try w/ some anal fingering first and let it go from there...PLUS you have to be 100% turned on and comfortable to do it and again, LUBRICATION otherwise it will hurt...bad! Yes it is painful, more so when they thrust out of you, putting it in....hurts too but not as much as thrusting out. It does get better w/ time but I know I haven't wanted it from my guy in over 2 year's since he made me bleed. All set w/ that one thanks... but w/ my last boyfriend we had anal all the time and it was great! He wasn't as large in girth so it didn't hurt like that and we did it all the time & I enjoyed it. So I guess it depends on the size of your guy, how turned on you'll be, relaxation is key and lot's of LUB...

HIH