does she still want me

[jayman]

my ex and i broke up about two months ago and since then she sometimes acts like she wants me,like we have had sex a few times since and she has slept in the same bed with me half the time,she say's that we will not get back together and that she was just doing that to be on good terms for the kids,but she never see's the kids when she comes here they are sleeping, and then when she gets up she leaves.so how do i know if she just want her freedom wich i did not really give her and does want me back but is afraid of losing it.or if she really doesnt want me back.and if she does want to be with me how can i speed up this process without fighting about it.

[Explorer]

I get the feeling she doesn't know herself what she wants. Confused people are confusing. Ask her what is important for her. Ask for her important values. Does the current situation meet the values? What would have to happend so that they would? That makes her think her own priorities, and she may become less confused and make more sense to you as well.

If she desides to come back to you and you are willing to take her, make sure you remember her values, and give her her space.

[Fluffer]

jayman, she is using you, however and for whatever reason. Tell her if she needs time to herself to figure out what she wants, she's got it, if that's what you want. Otherwise, open your eyes. Don't let her walk on you just because of the kids. They're not benefitting from the relationship the two of you are having right now.