Female Feelings VS. Male Feelings

[ILoveDaniel]

Alright, before Daniel and I had that major breakup back in April or May he and I were twix and twin, inseperable. Right when we met he didn't have too many friends and he was pretty much completely devoted to me and I admired that. He cried when we fought, we shared intimate thoughts, we talked about our future, we gave each other "the look." And now everything's changed and it breaks my heart. After we broke up and got back together shortly after, he told me out loud that he wasn't attached to me anymore. Last night we were at my friend Kyle's house and we got into a, not so much as an argument, but a very emotional discussion and he once again told me that he wasn't attached and that he thinks he doesn't have the right emotions. Nowadays since he's got friends, he puts them before me and it's all about "Daniel", it's never about "Kelly" or "Kelly and Daniel." And whenever I tell him about that he shakes his head and gets really pissed. Ever since I came home last night I've been really depressed and so close to crying. I really can't stand it anymore because the only emotion he ever shows me anymore is either anger or happiness. He never shows anything in between, or sadness, or worry for me, or he's never scared that something might happen between us. I've come to the conclusion that he won't attach himself back to me because of that breakup and he thinks that he shouldn't care for me "full-fledgedly" because of what happened. We didn't get to talk any more about it last night because Dad came to pick me up and since he's over Kyle's he doesn't give a bugger about calling me and when he gets home later this afternoon he doesn't have a phone at his house because of their financial problems. And, to add onto that, he didn't bother calling me from Kyles' yesterday until Kyle got on the internet and told me he was over there and I made him tell Daniel to call me. I just don't know what to do anymore.

[Brandye]

Move on with your life?

[jayman]

myself i dont feel moving on is the key.if you are really in love then working at it is.sometimes giving him some space is what he will need to see what he is missing,it sounds like it is his problem that your making yours.he was probly really hurt when you guys broke up and is tryin not to get hurt again,just give him some time without smothering him about it(pretend it dont bother you)and i bet the feelings he had will come back or he wouldnt have gotten back with you.bieleve me i know this i have tons of relationship problems right now myself and i do bieleve they will work out aswell.

[ILoveDaniel]

Okay, thanks.
I really want to work at it with him but we can't ever talk or see each other and on the rare occasion that we see each other it's around my family and I can't talk about things in front of them.

[Fluffer]

Honey, he doesn't want to work it out with you... So why do you want to waste your time trying to back someone who doesn't want to be with you?? He's already moved on and you should, too. Believe me, you will have lots of relationships and lots of loves and you will remember Daniel because you learned something from this relationship. Take care and good luck to you!

[bruins76]

I agree w/ the above poster. This guy is "just not into you" anymore... If he was, he'd be there giving you 100%, so do yourself a favor, leave him alone and move on w/ you life. You are looking like a puppy dog chasing him and begging him for attention/affection & he's making you look like a total fool. Take what ever dignity you have left and MOVE ON...trust me, he's NOT worth it!

Find a hobby, a new friend, focus on yourself.

[jayman]

i agree with not being a wimpering puppy dog but giving up on love when it gets tough is not always the answer give him space pretend you dont care and dont give him booty 4 awhile cuz then one of 2 things wilol happen he will see what he has and try to make it work or you will see that you were a booty call and know for sure,dont give up on love based upon a hunch from ppl who dont really know you or him but dont play the fool either if all he wants is sex then take it back if he still works at you then there is a chance.