Sexy ideas for parents?

[benh]

Hello all,

I am a married father looking for some simple, at home tips for a hot night in. (particularly from the female posters)

I am open to all suggestions that will excite my wife and I. We will have two small sleeping children nearby so it can't be too extravagant.

Thanks for all your suggestions.

[bruins76]

First off I am a mother of 3 boys, just had another boy in May so the first thing to get your wife to "want you" is to do thing's for her around the house, help her take the load off, offer to clean or cook or do the laundry. Then I'd offer to take the kids while she either (be home alone for some peace and quiet) or stay home w/ the kids while she go out w/ some friends or treat herself to a pedicure or something. The best way to make her feel better about YOU so she wants YOU more is to do thing's for her and then offer help so she is not so stressed out. I wish my husband would do things or offer, he never does and as a result I want to strangle him and the last thing I want is him touching me cause I am irritated.

After doing all those things, compliment her on her looks, her hair, her outfit etc.(if you don't already do that). Take her to a nice dinner, or maker her dinner w/ candles, bring her flowers or a rose, give her a card for no reason and leave it some place where she'll find it when you are not home (like the medicine cabinet) or send her a text message on her cell saying your thinking of her and how wonderful she is w/ the kids.

If you give her attention like that I can almost guarantee that she'll be wanting you like nothing else.

Then at night, kiss her softly on her neck, ears...tell her how you love her so much (not that you want to screw her)...and pay attention to EVERY detail of her body...kiss her lips...for a long time, kiss her ear, neck, nipples, inner thighs, give her some good oral and then go to town on her WITH OUT wanting her to give you oral sex... and make sure you tease her a little, not a lot (that will piss her off). If my man came home and did ALL of this stuff, I'd be on top of him and calling him a stallion daily.

Bottom line, it's the little thing's that count and then once you pay attention to her NEEDS and FEELINGS (guy's don't like that I know) then she'll want you more than you ever expected. Take it from someone who knows...

GL, HIH
~C