cant handle it..?HELP

[sweetiez]

Ok, In april i had a baby. and i got an iud. And i got my sex drive back.. and it SUCKS now my fh wont have sex.. he says because im bleedly.. i was but not anymore.. im sooo frustrated.. i have never gave a bj.. and im very scared and unsure about it.. what do u think i should do??
I have talked to my fh about it. but he just like doesnt want to do anything honestly im not sure how muhc longer i can go with out anything i dont want to cheat.. it has went through my mind but i know i wouldnt.. but grrr why wont he just have sex with me!!?
Oh and by the way im as skinny as i was before i ever got prego!! I dont get it..
HELP

[orchid]

some guys just have a thing about not wanting to have sex with the mother of their baby anymore. it's like they don't view them as a sexual person, but only as someones mother. to them it'd be almost like having sex with their own mother. as cliche as this sounds...communication is key. you need to talk to him and find out why he does not want to have sex with you anymore. this may even be a side effect, kind of how women get post pardom depression, men may temporarily lose sexual interest. but maybe just as with post pardom depression, it may be necessary to get professional help to get over it. but talk first!

[Luvs2plzU]

I feel for your situation...If I read everything right...you two are supposed to be getting married next year?? I hope and pray the two of you can work things out sooner than later...PEACE OUT...

[sdrawkcab m'i]

i can conclude that "fh" refers to your husband/boyfriend

but what does the letter f and h stand for? or is it not an acronym or whatever.. err im not making sense..

[demonbuttercup]

i think its future husband? not sure lol