need pleasure

[mdnhpy]

I am 27, happily married, have three beautiful daughters, I am pretty certain that I have never had an oragasm. Please help.

[Brandye]

Well, I recently had a patient in her mid-30s with three children who experienced her first orgasm. Problem was it was with a guy other than her husband. Now she has to figure out how to tell her husband what she wants without arousing his suspicions.

The best approach would be to get a good vibrator, the book Our Bodies Ou Selves and visit a few sites on female masturbation. Teach yourself and then get your husband to learn what rings your bell.

Or you can find a boyfriend for practice.

[walkienator]

Brandye, it saddens me to see how far you’ve missed the mark. False authority can lead many astray. To you, mdnhpy, I recommend the only constructive answer offered to you thus far: open communication with your husband. The strong adjective choice of happy leads me to believe that you currently have a rather strong relationship with your husband. Use this to your advantage. Initiate supportive two-way conversation with your husband. Acknowledge the fact that you have this sexual desire to achieve an orgasm. Discuss possible solutions and work together to achieve that common goal. I’m sure that you will enjoy the process and it will only help nurture your already loving relationship.

[Luvs2plzU]

Uhhhhhhhhhhh if a woman cannot acheive orgasm on her own, I seriously doubt any male would be any better in choreographing her into having one..it is her body...she is the only one that has the "manual" for that body, once she figures out what makes her mojo move and she finally realizes an orgasm and all the steps it takes, she can then share with her partner the things he/she might do to help her get to the holy grail...