high sex drive, positions and telling his mates

[xxfizzyxx123]

hey all, ive been with my bf for 3 and ahalf months and we have sex once a week (sometimes 2 times a week) we had sex yesterday and hes comin round mine tomoro after college, and lately ive got a high sex drive and if i ask him tomor, do u think hell think i want it too much? and he tells his best friends when we do it (not what we do, well, i dont think anyway) and theyre also my friends, i dont want him to tell them what we do, it makes me feel like ****. another thing, how do i ask him to do the position where my legs are over his shoulders?

[Brandye]

If my partner tells anyone what is going on, he is history. If people makes assumptions, that is fine but I do not want a scoreboard anywhere. Why bother with another position when you need to dump him. If you wish, tell him you are putting your legs up and then do it.

[dancingdoc2]

I certainly agree with dumping him.
He is too immature to be in a trusting confidential relationship.

As for relationship, it is a partnership and so too is making love. If you want to place your legs over his shoulders, or anywhere else; just "swing into action" as it were. You do not necessarily have to ask or have permission.

You may have a high sex drive; however, I can pretty much guarantee you that his is still higher. That said, he probably thinks he is never going to get enough sex, so, no, I doubt he'll think you're being forward.

That he breaches confidences, by keeping his friends in the loop is a deal breaker. No second changes as far as we're concerned. There are just some rules of decency and etiquette that ya gotta know going into this that seems to have been overlooked in his education.