Retarded Ejaculation--Ejaculatory Overcontrol ?

[Patrick D. McDonald]

Looking for help with my problem would like to hear any input from anyone who may have experienced this condition . Thank you , Patrick .

[Ryouko]

are you saying that you produce an irregular amount of semen? overcontrol meaning you have too much control? definately need more information.

[demonbuttercup]

Retarded Ejaculation is when you can go for hours and nothing happens =\
One position that has been mentioned is the girl on her stomach...flat. Legs together and straight. You stradle her.. w/ your legs on the outsides of her body and enter from behind.
My boyfriend says this one feels "too" good and doesn't usually last very long. Another guy on here mentioned he liked this one as well.

[Patrick D. McDonald]

When i have sex with my wife i don't ejaculate at all and after she is satisfied and tired that is the end of it ! We have sex somethimes for 1-2 hours and she is dune i can't get her to go a 2nd. time and she won't finish me by hand or orally . I stopped asking anymore and just watch porn and masturbate to keep from going goofy .

[dancingdoc2]

How do you perceive your relationship, overall?
How does she perceive your relationship? Have you asked her?

Is she interested in romance and does she respond to your hugs, kisses, sweet nothings whispered in her ear, etc? Is she interested in sex or is it mainly an accommodation? Does she want to improve the quality of your lovemaking?

If she recognizes that there is a problem and is interested in working on a solution, perhaps the two of you should seek counseling and gain an understanding of the overall process of making love. Clearly what you have been doing isn't working, and counseling should be able to offer a new direction for you. Also, I believe the two of you should begin reading the educational information on the Board in order to glean some insight into how to better your lovemaking.