inconvenient sex drive

[ageless_gypsy]

I am nineteen and have an extremely high sex drive. Even if my boyfriend and I did have sex every day, I end up masturbating every time I get a chance. As it is, it ends up being once every couple of days and I still go crazy. I can't find any information on how to lower my sex drive, only on how to increase it, which is the last thing I need! I worry that it may be abnormal or unhealthy, but even if it isn't I end up feeling neglected or rejected on a regular basis. I get especially moody and upset and I hate it but I'm not sure what to do! Anyone got any suggestions?

[dancingdoc2]

While completely normal, I'd guess, your situation does sound unusual.

My recommendation is the same as I would extend to males of the species, that is to masturbate as often as need be. So, how much is too much? When you have reached your limit your body will cry "uncle" and simply refuse to respond for several hours or a day. The other criteria of how much is too much is if doing it interferes with daily obligations, chores, and tasks.

I do not know of any way to lower your drive; however, girls are much better at compartmentalizing matters so I suggest doing a bit (more) of that and involve yourself in other things. You probably won't stop thinking about sex, but it will help divert your attention and keep you otherwise occupied until you can give into your urges more conveniently, later.

The trouble guys have with masturbating until "uncle" is called, is that it takes a body several hours before it can sort of respond and probably a good two days for it to build up a full head of "steam", so to speak. Well, if a guy is accustomed to masturbating two-four times a day and does it more on a particular day reaching his limit, he has to endure some pent up stress for a time before being able to release it. The challenge, nay, choice becmes whether to satisfy the itch, sooner, or later. Tough call, that. It may well be the same for you.