party 2morrow nd i need help wit my gf

[blooms]

ok so i gotta gf who i'm goin 2 an informal dance wit...i'm 15yr old nd she lives 30min. away, this will b our 1st "date" nd we've been goin out for 2weeks. i want her 2 b like "wow tht was ****in amazinggggg."...wut r some things i can do to her so she gets aroused and gets a real good feeling (not sexual jus like good 1's)...wut can i do like while were dancin or sittin wit each other tht she'll b suprised that i'm doin it but enjoyin it at the same time?

[Ryouko]

well I am a 17 year old male, and from my experience, dances are just an excuse for guys to rub their crotch up against girls. I don't know if it is the same where you are, but just follow her hips if it is. the hip movement is pretty standard, so you don't have to worry about that. You hands are what it is about, take it slow since you are 15. If the music is loud don't worry about talking, it will just be a lot of " WHAT?"'s and awkward nodding when you act like you heard her. no matter what, don't go home after, find ANYTHING to do. that is when you can talk and make moves

[blooms]

no no i'm not askin while i'm dancin, i'm askin like while were sittin away from the dance floor like alone wut r sum good things 2 do ex: massaging certain parts, doin small things, etc

[demonbuttercup]

Well what have you been doing previously? Like how far have you gotten?
I mean even if I have known a guy for 2 weeks doesn't necessarily mean I want him rubbing my bum, thighs, or boobs lol.

[blooms]

we haven done ne thing but she said its ok if we make out nd if i feel her up, i'm jus tlkin small like massaging neck, shoulders, small shyt tht would get her aroused or sumtin

[dancingdoc2]

> i'm 15yr old nd ... this will b our 1st "date" nd we've been goin out for 2weeks. i want her 2 b like "wow tht was ****in amazinggggg."

First of all I'd get very realistic. Two weeks and a first date are neither the time or place for heavy breathing and roaming hands. If you want to make a favorable impression, then treat her with respect, courtesy, and, employ good manners and etiquette, and pay attention to her. Be a good listener and do not abandon her for your friends.

The first several dates are for getting to know each other, not for groaping and fondling or trying to kiss a nearly complete stranger.

> wut r some things i can do to her so she gets aroused and gets a real good feeling

Asked and answered.
Much of what turns on the female of the species is romance and emotional interplay--not the physical aspects. If your plan is to try and build a good and lasting relationship with this girl, then pay attention to the basics and construct a solid foundation upon which the rest of the relationship can be constructed.

Other than holding hands or placing your arm around her waist, anything more this early in the process can be construed as making inappropriate advances or worse. Do not do anything that might make her uncomfortable even though you do not see your actions as making her uncomfortable.

> wut can i do like while were dancin or sittin wit each other tht she'll b suprised that i'm doin it but enjoyin it at the same time?

Do not spring a surprise like this on her. You have much to learn about the female psyche and how it differs from the male. Your hope that she will be enjoying your advances is premature. Dial it back and save all this for weeks or months later.


Lastly, for the rest of us, please refrain from using internet shortcuts and post to the Board using the correct and proper spelling of words.

[Brandye]

Start with your English teacher. She can help yuou express yourself like a human. Then other stuff may fall into place.

And why did you put this in Married and Long Term? Comprehension as bad as expression?

[Luvs2plzU]

Originally Posted by Brandye

Start with your English teacher. She can help yuou express yourself like a human. Then other stuff may fall into place.

And why did you put this in Married and Long Term? Comprehension as bad as expression?

ROFLMAOPIMP

[blooms]

iight sorry i have a 4th grade readin level, itz not my fault i live in an city wit not much money, but thx =\