Too Much?

[Sweetness12]

ok, well i dont know if it's because I'm addicted or what, but i kind of thought i was having sex WAY too much... everyday....so, i havent brought it up in about 2 weeks and I think my B/F has noticed and has been trying to initiate (sp) sex, but i completley change subject...


Is that normal if i've had WAY too much sex?
Is that possible??

[batman527]

I'm kind of confused... Do you mean that you've had so much sex that you're bored with it and aren't interested in it lately? Are you saying that when your boyfriend brings up sex, you intentionally change the subject because you don't want to do it? If you could clarify your post a little, I think it would be easier to help. Thanks!

[Sweetness12]

ok, i dont know if im having too much sex...like if thats what's triggering me not wanting to..ya kno? Like, everytime he starts acting weird around me, i know that he wants sex..but I dont so i'll say something like 'hey, lets go do something' and i completley change his attitude....only because i dont want to have sex..and this has been going on for like 2 weeks..only because i dont feel like it, or I dont want to....i dont know what it is...

is it normal to not want sex?

[demonbuttercup]

Well I mean thats normal in any relationship. or even when you just first start having sex. its new and exciting and you want it all the time. eventually the novelty does wear off to some extent. and other things seem more important. or maybe you try to back off a little just to make sure that your relationship has more substance than JUST sex. you make sure you have other things you enjoy doing w/ your partner like just talking or spending time together.
I would talk to him though and tell him how you feel. He is liable to take your actions the wrong way and think you dont like him anymore or dont find him attractive anymore.
i am sure he is getting mixed signals/feelings if you guys had sex everyday for awhile and then all of a sudden nothing.