04-16-2006, 04:19 PM
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"Wet Dream" question
This is actually old news in my relationship. I'm not having a problem with my girlfriend about this, but it's come up before. How does everyone feel about their significant other having a sex dream about another person? This happened to me a while ago. She had a dream about an ex-boyfriend, and told me about it the next day. At first I was jealous and upset, but then I realized that it was just a dream, and she can't really control it. I guess I would rather have her dream about me than anyone else, but it's not like she's actively participating in this, you know?
Anyway, I just had a dream this morning about a friend of mine. I'm not really attracted to this girl at all, so I guess that disproves the "sub-conscious desire coming to the surface in a dream" theory. So, just give me some feedback, just curious. Thanks everyone.
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04-16-2006, 05:04 PM
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Wouldn't bother me at all. We have dreams about all kinds of people from the past. Old friends. Dead relatives. Former teachers. Former lovers. She just has a healthy and active mind.
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Jack and Jill went up the hill to fetch a pail of water, Jill forgot to take her pill and now she has a daughter.
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04-17-2006, 03:30 AM
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Research dreams... they are of the unordered and unconcious mind. We are in no way responsible for our dreams - and, much as we'd like them to make sense, they are chemical reactions.
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"The most fundamental form of human stupidity is forgetting what we were trying to do in the first place."
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04-17-2006, 08:22 AM
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We all do it. I simply do not tell partners when I dream of others. In sex, itself, fantasizing about another is very common. I certainly do not tell my partner who he or she was in my mind!
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04-25-2006, 10:27 AM
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i have never had a sex dream.
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04-27-2006, 10:56 PM
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ive dreamt about exes and yah i went the route of not telling my current bf... mostly because indeed i believe that its harmless and would do him no good to know this... i just wake up and it leaves me with a feeling of sometimes a good rememberance of the past or a "that was odd" feeling lol... but 2 minutes later its time to move on and get the day started....
dreams are so random, ive dreamt about lesbian sex with one of my friends, not something id want to do in real life tho lol
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05-06-2006, 01:14 AM
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I've been plagued with sexy dreams my whole life. I thank God everytime I have one. Completely uncontrollable, but wonderful. How else would I have ever gotten Selma Hyek!!?? LOL
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05-06-2006, 12:28 PM
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I tell my boyfriend my sex dreams, whether they're about him or not. When they're about his friends, he gets a little upset, but knows it's uncontrollable. Likewise, he tells me about all of his dreams, and there is rarely a problem.
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"I can't see it/I don't believe it now"
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05-21-2006, 05:49 PM
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It don't matter who you dream about it matters who you sleep with
Me and my husband have dreams about other people all the time. The trick is not to get upset but to turn it into a fun little game. This way both know each others dream and can use it to spice up your sex life
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