Pregnant and bf is gross. HELP!

[totalsweetiez]

Im having such a HUGE issue. That is effecting our life together and i have NO clue what to do now!!...
First off im sorry if its SO long.. but im 20 years old. And im pregnant with our first child!.And i am due May,21. So in a couple months!.And my bf of a year and a half. is 21 years old!. i love hem sooo much. very dearly. And im so sorry if this sounds so gross.. i think it is..but i NEED help! seriously.. or else i think it will break our family apart!...
awhile ago.. i'd find pictures of like bondage and these "diper" girls.. and omg i just cried my eyes out for days. never thought my bf could be so gross!. So i confronted hem about this odd behavior when i first found out. because i can't keep it in. if something is bothering me i let hem know it.So i told hem..and he totally deined it!. i couldn't let it go for DAYS.. i was soo lost!. i felt so empty and sick inside. but i evenually just forgot about it..i wanted too.. b.c i love this guy and yuck just the thought of that makes me sick!. And then after months and months later.. we finally get a Computer. and latly i been wondering.. we each have our own desk tops accounts or whatever. But i was debating if i even wanted to look at his.. shurgs.. i really was.. because we are soo good.. i didn't want anything to disturb our life. but then again i just been wondering!. and i finally just looked.. and i was right.. that weird pictures and i seen a bunch of websites he went to for all that bondage stuff and them "Dipers girls". im sooooooo sick again!!! I feel just GROSS! and i feel we need help.. im scared to even mention it.. b.c then he will be like.. what the **** is this?? ect... i feel sick! And i find out he joinned this site and pretending to be a girl or w.e has pictures of some chick.. that wears dipers!! omghh..its SOOOOOOO GROSS! gosh someone i hope can help me..i need advice.. BADLY!.. i think im gunna die. But yes its gross..i need advice on what to do.. i thought of moving.. but i dont think i could. i love hem to much. i just wish he would tell me whats going on! im going crazy all..i do is cry!. i want us to be a family. but its hard. what should i do? i wanna try and confront hem but im scared tooo.
Any advice would be amazing.. thanks so much.. its killing me!

[clare33]

Are you guys married or planning on getting married? It doesn't sound like you guys knew each other that well before getting pregnant with each other. Was it an unplanned pregnancy? I assume that you want to continue with the pregnancy no matter what. I would seriously reconsider raising my child in a home with this guy. Think about how much you actually do know about him, and if he can't be honest with you when you are having his child, I would consider that a BIG red flag.

[Brandye]

Honey,

This is an issue that will not go away. You have a tough decision to make and there is little anyone can do to help you. He needs help badly and without it, you can assume this interest will continue.

[cowgurl_sweetheart87]

maybe if you try getting him into some sort of relationship counciling. you ant have a sucessful relationship if both partners are not open with eachother. you guys need to sit down and really talk with eachother and get to know eachother. i think the diper thing can be delt with but hes got to be able to admit it and because that babys comming i think clare33 is absolutly right....him being that dishonest is a "big red flag" thats y i would suggest a relationship counciling to maybe break the dishonest behaviors.