hubby masterbates while asleep

[Txhottie]

This has been going on for about 6 weeks. Started out of the blue. Did some research on the web about it and it actually does exsist...problem is he doesn't believe me. I have audio recordings of him...and he STILL doesn't believe me. What do I do. He doesn't want to have sex much anymore and the "shaking bed" is driving me nuts. Not to mention the lack of sleep. Been married 11 years....2 daughters...I love this man but he refuses to go to the doctor. There IS treatment for this...HELP!!!!! Any suggestions???

[Brandye]

Yes, this is a documented phenomenon. The best solution is what you have requested - that he get it checked out. Next best would be for you to join in and climb on. Maybe that would get his attention.

[Txhottie]

been there done that.....I am not met with the same gusto as if he weren't asleep.

[dancingdoc2]

Perhaps, you need to give the guy a wakeup call after climbing on. Right, Brandye?

[stormtrooperdude]

I have heard that if you wake someone from sleep walking they sometimes fall over. And if they are sleep walking on a ledge to let them go because they most likely wont fall over unless you atempt to wake them up.

So I would be careful about waking him up while he is sleep masturbating he might fall out of bed and damage his member.

[LittleFury]

Originally Posted by stormtrooperdude

I have heard that if you wake someone from sleep walking they sometimes fall over. And if they are sleep walking on a ledge to let them go because they most likely wont fall over unless you atempt to wake them up.

So I would be careful about waking him up while he is sleep masturbating he might fall out of bed and damage his member.

But then you can always move the bed against the wall and make him sleep on the side against the wall

[Rawbob]

My 2 cents worth......i would borrow a friend video cam that has "night vision" on it and just video tape him.

That should be evidence of his nocturnal masturbation.

2nd, you should NOT add more stress to the situation and focuse on intimacy and sex without reminding him about his nightime masturbation!

Another idea is to have him sit in a chair in the bedroom, and you masturbate in front of him.....often times that helps validate the overal action and lets him know it's "OK." in general.