sex with wife life sucks

[sera300]

Originally Posted by gorgeous_mistake

True. I never want to be one of "those" women. I'm proud of you for not wanting them.

Think maybe its better to not wear a wedding ring?

I had a hard time getting used to it; admittedly would take it off at bedtime and at times forgot to put it back on--never made a difference to me--mine is in the bottom of the river now!

Men swear if they put one on (unmarried) they get hit on more...this is according to male friends. I don't see where they are necessary personally. A man who states he is married is off limits to me. The ones which annoy me? Married with no ring and pawn themselves off as single, date you, and then when you figure it out (fast) they think your hanging around still!

If people want an open relationship; then both parties have to be agreeable-I don't like the sneaky ones & liars...Married is off limits for me--I am single and do not want to get attached even to an open relationship with a man I cannot stay with.

[gorgeous_mistake]

Bottom of the river? NICE!

Those men are pathetic cowards. How could you have a relationship with a married man? It's almost as if you're their seconds, their wife is the one who shares a life with him, not the other woman. As for the ''gold diggers", honestly I sort of root for them. Get what they want from their married man; new house, new car, just to be left when their wife founds out. Turns out perfect for them, idk if i should be appalled, or say way to go!

[sera300]

Originally Posted by gorgeous_mistake

Bottom of the river? NICE!

Those men are pathetic cowards. How could you have a relationship with a married man? It's almost as if you're their seconds, their wife is the one who shares a life with him, not the other woman. As for the ''gold diggers", honestly I sort of root for them. Get what they want from their married man; new house, new car, just to be left when their wife founds out. Turns out perfect for them, idk if i should be appalled, or say way to go!

Yes, it's where it belongs among the scum!

I inadvertently dated and slept with a married one who talked and stated he was single...he was a politician! I found out fast and said see ya! He still runs when he is out w/his wife. I guess they think you will hang out of desperation???IDK!

No gold digging! You make it on your own & then find you match--you can always hold your head high b/c you did it alone. Funny how these women say "oh my husband is this or that (doc/lawyer) etc. I just reply "I don't own one" when I don't care for their looking down attitude. Okay my ex is a cop & lawyer big damned deal--all on me. I am who I am done by myself. I did not need someone to tow my line. Neither do you....

[gorgeous_mistake]

Ooo love that.. "among the scum"

Politician? Ha figures. He had the wrong idea about you, maybe others would hang on, but not this woman!

Oh of course not!! I wouldn't want to do that!! I want to depend on myself, I want to hold my own, I want to be able to tell my husband good-bye or allow him to leave without me having to worry about my financial situation. I will not be one of those women who are desperate to stay with their husbands because they worry about being left with nothing, or having to pay bills (speaking mainly of middle and lower class).

[sera300]

Originally Posted by gorgeous_mistake

Ooo love that.. "among the scum"

Politician? Ha figures. He had the wrong idea about you, maybe others would hang on, but not this woman!

Oh of course not!! I wouldn't want to do that!! I want to depend on myself, I want to hold my own, I want to be able to tell my husband good-bye or allow him to leave without me having to worry about my financial situation. I will not be one of those women who are desperate to stay with their husbands because they worry about being left with nothing, or having to pay bills (speaking mainly of middle and lower class).

Yes, it's somewhere in the depths of the river scum. Well placed!

In all honesty you will find the dependency in all classes; some stay b/c they do not want to change the lifestyle they have been afforded; therefore, they end up in a marriage of convenience. Odd part is no one wins in a divorce it's only degrees of loosing. In some circles divorce is not an option this is why you see many stay due to family names being disgraced.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!

[wet_suit_one]

Sera,

You made an interesting point here:

"Other single women? Love married men. Why? You get the companionship without the headache and still have your own life. Face it he's not leaving his wife yet provides entertainment & companionship. A Wedding band is a good attraction for women...yes, male friends have put one on. For some women I think it's the challenge."

This is roughly equivalent to the male interest in prostitutes. You get the sex without the relationship headaches. As one punter said, you pay the prostitute to leave. Men being somewhat simpler, can do without the "entertainment & companionship" and just get their sex and she leaves. Similar, though definitely not identical, to what single women are looking for going after married men. Maybe I'm totally off base, but I see similarities here....

[sera300]

Originally Posted by wet_suit_one

Sera,

You made an interesting point here:

"Other single women? Love married men. Why? You get the companionship without the headache and still have your own life. Face it he's not leaving his wife yet provides entertainment & companionship. A Wedding band is a good attraction for women...yes, male friends have put one on. For some women I think it's the challenge."

This is roughly equivalent to the male interest in prostitutes. You get the sex without the relationship headaches. As one punter said, you pay the prostitute to leave. Men being somewhat simpler, can do without the "entertainment & companionship" and just get their sex and she leaves. Similar, though definitely not identical, to what single women are looking for going after married men. Maybe I'm totally off base, but I see similarities here....

Maybe. Never thought of it that way. Only difference is there is dollar/cash transferred--paying for a service.

[EvilEvilKitten]

That is PRECISELY why single women date married men. "Why buy the pig when all you want is a little sausage?"

[gorgeous_mistake]

Family name being disgraced, that almost sickens me.