Broke my heart

[neverdiplomatic]

Sitting here at three thirty in the morning, crying my eyes out. He has ruined me.
Never loved me; used me for the kids. Told me so today, along with the fact that I am not skinny enough for him (after losing one hundred pounds, whitling myself down to a size 8). Intends to sleep with other women. I am expected to accept this. I feel hopeless. Don't know what the hell to do. How am I going to get out. I wish I'd never met him.

[LittleFury]

Talk to the lawyer. Seriously. Talk to a lawyer and your attorney will find the best way to make him pay for his actions.

[babalaza]

thats bad

maybe he didnt meant it, he might have been out of control..

if its true what he said, i agree with little fury and i would add some ass kicking to that

[neverdiplomatic]

He's tried to back-pedal out of fear of losing the kids, but it's too late for that. Am taking the kids and moving back to the Kootenays. Have friends there who will help me. Am in the process of filing for custody. He makes me sick.

[LittleFury]

Speak to the lawyer before moving. Any action done by either party might change the outcome of custody fight. A lawyer will advise you on the best course of action.

[j56h]

You've lost 100 pounds!!! Yeah for YOU! So he doesn't think you are skinny enough? Who cares...he's history and you're in better shape than you were. Just keep telling yourself that you've altered your lifestyle to be more healthy and more attractive for YOU, not for HIM. Once things settle down some, you'll find someone who really appreciates you. Keep your head up and remember that no matter how sad the past makes you, it can't be changed and there are plenty of new opportunities just around the corner!

[Nikki Vandom]

Sweetheart,Don't let him dictate your self worth.The betrayal hurts,so cry!Kinda like grieving over the death of a loved one,as it were.But then move on.You will find someone who will love you.Have faith and hope.Don't let this **** make you a bitter person.Rather than an ending this can be a beginning.Who knows, in time you may look back and be thankful you are quit of him.Learn from this, become stronger from it.Get closer to your real friends or make some new ones.Talk to a lawyer.Sometimes, it pays to be the aggressor.Once the "D" word comes from his lips you should consider it a done deal.Let none of his sweet talk sway you, stay the course.Do not let him know you are filing till the lawyer contacts him.Clean out your joint accounts.You will need the $$$ and it will put him in a bind w/ his lawyer.I realise this sounds harsh,and this is my opinion,but my family has two lawyers in it, and these are things I have heard my brothers say.Be strong,you will persevere!Best regards,N.V.

[neverdiplomatic]

It gets better. Went into the hospital last week. Was diagnosed with pelvic inflammatory disease. Demanded std tests. Got my results a few days later. Chlamydia. I have never had an std in my life. Turns out he has been fucking a 17 year old crack whore prostitute since last spring. He loves me. Is sorry. Didn't realise what he had until he threw it away. Idiot doesn't even realise I am going to take his BALLS off by the time I am through with him. My plans are set. The kids and I are gone in March. As it is, he's out of the house and is NOT being allowed back. Am delerious at the thought of going home and being with people who actually care about me. The kids and I are well rid of this messed up family. Yeah, his brother was banging the same girl (although he also had a live in girlfriend at the time). He's been trying to get her back; not gonna happen now. I told her he had been sleeping with this girl while they were together. Now she has to go get tested again too.
WHY THE #### ARE PEOPLE LIKE THIS?
*takes deep breath*
So disappointed in him I cannot even begin to express it.