Love my wife, but in a sexual rut....

[sera300]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

also business owner, mentor, and employer. There is some overlap but not much. I tend to be very closed-mouthed about what I consider to be my business when speaking to others. No it isn't as difficult as you might think.

Forgot "Author"...

[EvilEvilKitten]

sorry - working on a book now...

[sera300]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

sorry - working on a book now...

About? Your Bio.?

[constantlylearning]

This would make for good reading on long flights...........good reading is
so hard to find. Don't you think?

[sera300]

Originally Posted by constantlylearning

This would make for good reading on long flights...........good reading is
so hard to find. Don't you think?

Interesting reading is difficult to find; perfect for those who spend time on lengthy flights! When do you slow down on the flying to have a personal life?

[constantlylearning]

Nothing earth shattering by any means. Have you ever noticed that something
really good to read is not nearly as easy to find as you would imagine it would
be? Or maybe, it is that many reads simply do not hold your attention very
well. Obviously, I GET BORED---LOL.
The fact remains that a EEK book would be a "good read" in my humble opinion.

[constantlylearning]

One would have to believe (referenced from her posts) that she would be a
very engaging and enticing person be around and if that was translated to
print it would have to hold your attention. I just wonder if translating from
everyday life to print media would be difficult??

[EvilEvilKitten]

cL you can get my book Notes of a Dominatrix from Borders and the online retailers. I do not know why Chat is not yet available, but it should be soon. Please be aware that Notes of a Dominatrix is seven books in one. "The collected works of The Feline of Darkness". LOL, no it wasn't all that difficult - just omitted the names to protect the not-so-innocent.

[Rouge]

Originally Posted by Ducy

Why is it that all sexual frustration stories seem so similar

My wife did always wanted sex, then we said we do and now she dont....its as if some of these woman in this world are doing whatever to get a man and then once they have them its game over I win no more pretending..

It's true! Women rarely realize something in a marriage relationship; making dinner, sharing the bills, all of that is junk compared to the connection you two have to maintain. Keeping romance/sex alive in a relationship has to be a conscious effort on some days. Without the conscious effort, it won't happen.

I've ended up in a fairly serious relationship, and have been putting this into practice. Some days I really don't feel like having sex! He does, however, and I have to accept that. I'll tell him in advance if I'm not really feeling in the mood, but I'll let him have his fun. After about 3 minutes, I'm fully into it and ready to go! The hardest part is getting the motivation, and between work, kids, house chores and whatnot, women generally don't want to make the sexual efforts as well.

Conscious effort, IMO.

[scoutniagara]

I'm an empty nester. My three kids are with significant others and out of the house. Even my dogs leave us alone while we're experimenting with various positions posted on this site. She's been my only sex partner and after 36 years of marriage, we're still trying new things; new toys... There's a lot of information on this site. Try some of them; read the forums, and communication is the key. Talk about it. Try it. Then, talk some more. Try different places.....

You know, with sites such as this, youporn and redtube, and the whole global internet, society is beginning to open up to a sexual revolution. Enjoy it!