Love my wife, but in a sexual rut....

[EvilEvilKitten]

I keep my many lives well separated as per The Agreement.

[constantlylearning]

Is it difficult to juggle "many lives?" How many is "many?" Sera asked me ask
these questions for her. Sera, you are welcome.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by constantlylearning

Is it difficult to juggle "many lives?" How many is "many?" Sera asked me ask
these questions for her. Sera, you are welcome.

Huh??? Lost me. I am pretty blatant about just asking point blank! I was merely curious about the neighbors! Don't we all have many lives? Closet shopping? Real world? And our fantasy's? Evil...I think CL wants to know How man lives can you juggle? I think that she is happily married, has adult children, I think grandchildren, friends, extended family, and a lifestyle...there many lives!

[Thresher_V]

I prefer to think of it as masks. We all have certain ones we wear for different occasions. I work with customers so I would keep a mask of professionalism and not be as foul-mouthed or twisted as I am privately. Another would be how you feel about your superiors at work, I know I'd like to say a few things to them in a "not so nice" way, but for the sake of my job I won't.

[sera300]

They are roles...how we are and how we appear in given circumstances based upon our company we keep at the time. Who you are as a person is the same.

[Thresher_V]

Every "mask" is still part of who you are, just a certain part you wish to revel at a certain time and place. I'm still have a sense of professionalism in other aspects of my life, but I show it best when I'm at work. I may act the same way around my grandmother, I doubt she would want to know the details of my sex life, so I choose to be more respectful and more patient like I would if I were on the job. I don't ever want to make her feel uncomfortable or act as though I have better things to do.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by Thresher_V

Every "mask" is still part of who you are, just a certain part you wish to revel at a certain time and place. I'm still have a sense of professionalism in other aspects of my life, but I show it best when I'm at work. I may act the same way around my grandmother, I doubt she would want to know the details of my sex life, so I choose to be more respectful and more patient like I would if I were on the job. I don't ever want to make her feel uncomfortable or act as though I have better things to do.

Mask is like concealing....we do not wish or want to share every detail of life with those who surround us & there are times it may not be appropriate! Honestly, I have to say just about every piece of my life is in here--no one else knows every bit, LOL. Enjoy your grandmother while you are fortunate still to have her!

[constantlylearning]

Thresher those are very good points. I second Sera on loving your grandparent's
VERY VERY special people. Sera, I was just kidding EEK a touch about the "Sera
asked me" part. I think I have a vague vision on what she is talking about. At
the end of the day, it is her life. And Sera of course you are fun. Banter Remember?

[sera300]

Originally Posted by constantlylearning

Thresher those are very good points. I second Sera on loving your grandparent's
VERY VERY special people. Sera, I was just kidding EEK a touch about the "Sera
asked me" part. I think I have a vague vision on what she is talking about. At
the end of the day, it is her life. And Sera of course you are fun. Banter Remember?

I know banter...

[EvilEvilKitten]

also business owner, mentor, and employer. There is some overlap but not much. I tend to be very closed-mouthed about what I consider to be my business when speaking to others. No it isn't as difficult as you might think.