Watching your lovely wife with another man

[teacherzpet]

My wife has admittedly only had one lover....me. I had the opportunity to be with 'several' other women before I met her. I began to wonder if she would respond the same to another mans 'way'.....a few years ago. Would she make love to him the same way that she makes love to me? Yes, we are using the phrase 'make love' a little loosely here...but. It is an intriguing scenario for me to contemplate. Would she respond more passionately and with more reckless abandon with another man buried deep inside her....? Would he be able to bring out sexual behaviors in her that I have not seen from her before? Would he be able to bring out a different demention of her sexual 'being'? She says that things are great for her as they are. She says that she doesn't look at other men and wonder what it would be like to be with them. That there is no sexual curiousity at all. But is she just being polite and protecting my ego? Am I the only person out there that would ENJOY watching the rapture on my mates face as they get off with another lover?

[WallyLlama]

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Quote[/b] (teacherzpet @ Nov. 03 2005,20:53)]My wife has admittedly only had one lover....me. I had the opportunity to be with 'several' other women before I met her. I began to wonder if she would respond the same to another mans 'way'.....a few years ago. Would she make love to him the same way that she makes love to me? Yes, we are using the phrase 'make love' a little loosely here...but. It is an intriguing scenario for me to contemplate. Would she respond more passionately and with more reckless abandon with another man buried deep inside her....? Would he be able to bring out sexual behaviors in her that I have not seen from her before? Would he be able to bring out a different demention of her sexual 'being'? She says that things are great for her as they are. She says that she doesn't look at other men and wonder what it would be like to be with them. That there is no sexual curiousity at all. But is she just being polite and protecting my ego? Am I the only person out there that would ENJOY watching the rapture on my mates face as they get off with another lover?

I suspect you won't be the ONLY guy who has some curiousity like this...

I'm not one.

I'd therefore caution that you be certain you know what you really want before proceeding. If you are curious about her response to "another man's way" why not approach her differntly instead of offering another man?

I'd also suggest you consider believing her when she says she has no desire or curiousity. It is entirely possible that she feels complete with you and could NOT experience "rapture" making love to someone else. That sort of love is extremely difficulty to find and experience. I know. It took me quite a few years.

This is not meant to be judgemental, certainly, but you did ask.

[kitty_robyn]

I understand and can relate to your post, but you should consider the repercussions of all of this carefully and weigh them before you decide to go for it. Make sure she's entirely comfortable with it all too and it can be a really fun experience. You might try making it into a threesome (MMF), that way she's a little more comfortable and knows she has you there too. Good luck and have fun.