1month count as LONG!

[Pinoy]

Wow 1 month is long an if she dosent put out then its a no go relationship meh...

whats count as LONG we talking years or like weeks or even days lol

[ductapefaerie]

are you talking about a relationship? because I don't think a month is very long at all. and you saying that if she doesn't put out, it's a "no go"?? I had two friends who went out for 6 months before they even kissed. she's probably not ready...have you talked to her it seems that you are obviously not in this relationship for the right reasons...end it before you hurt her anymore...

[Pinoy]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (ductapefaerie @ Oct. 26 2005,11:48)]are you talking about a relationship? *because I don't think a month is very long at all. *and you saying that if she doesn't put out, it's a "no go"?? *I had two friends who went out for 6 months before they even kissed. *she's probably not ready...have you talked to her *it seems that you are obviously not in this relationship for the right reasons...end it before you hurt her anymore...

ina realeaton ship for all wrong reasons?
i met this chick we talk shes goes " wow we been going out 1 month"an im thinking "is that a gud thing or bad"then i havent really goten sexual with her becus i always thought she was the shy one an waits for awhile but all of a sudden oout of no where she
TXT me an goes " how would sex make you feel "
an just wondering how an what 2 do... ive talked to her about it an yeah

[Emmy]

If you're not mature enough to type in proper English, I think most people would agree you're far from ready for sex.

[kitty_robyn]

ditto on emmy's comment, and i'd just like to add that maybe she knows how you are (ie-- won't give a relationship a chance to develop before you call it off because she "won't put out&quot and is wanting to see if it will really last before she gives you anything special. i hope, for her sake, that you'e already dumped her so she can move on to better things.

[jss150]

one month? You have to be kidding me, I think you are on the wrong board. Let's talk years, although I have plenty or friends for whom one month may be considered long!

[xx_tatiana_xx]

I've never made it past three months... I'm around that mark with my current bf though and It shows every sign of continuing, I hope soa nyway :-) Has just boiled down to not finding the right person for me.

[dancingdoc2]

Pinoy, you have to see your opening post from the other vantage point, that being that from the wording makes it look as if you are looking for the services of a lady of the night without having to pay.

Here's the flipside of the debate so far:

Let's say the above scenario is incorrect and you are looking for a timeline for how long, long, is before including sex into the relationship. Most men and women who are interested in having a relationship with the other will want to wait until they get to know each other better and have established a history as well as some common goals for the immediate future, not to mention whether or not there is even the stuff for a future together. That said, I think sex in whatever form should be introduced gradually and over time beginning with kissing and then necking and then petting, heavy petting, foreplay, and then the whatever type of endiing she agrees to. The timeline is up to her as she sets the boundaries and extends them as things progress. Certainly you can kiss after a few dates and begin to make out after a few months--depending upon how often the two of you see each other and go on dates. You sound quite young so I'd be in favor of drawing this timeline out even further than I would if the two of you were in your late teens, early twenties, or older.

It may just be that her question concerning your attitude on sex is just that. Perhaps her point being to learn if you are simply wanting to get into her panties or looking to place this activity into proper perspective within a blossoming relationship. Ask her.