gf never wants to go out with me anymore

[lakers fan]

For the last few months, my gf has gone out with her coworkers or mostly a guy coworker 2-3 night a week after work. She never invites me, and when I ask if she wants to go out she say's no im too tired, or say's can i go out with my coworkers. I just play the role of the husband the other nights she does come home, by cooking for her when she doesn't go out.

Im getting tired of this, why would she not want to go out with me instead of her dam coworker? I mean tonight is a perfect example. I talked to her earlier, and she asked what I am doing tonight. told her I didn't know, but woujld happily go out to see a movie, adn take her to dinner. She never called me back, just talked to her a few minutes ago at 2 in the morning, she went out with her "coworker" to dinner and to a bar.

I know she doesn't like him, but it still kinda bothers me that she always goes out with him. I mean I wouldn't care, but every dam night she goes out? Another thing, last week she told me that we were gonna have a special night, where we get some take out, watch a movie, etc etc. i come to find out the only reason why she planned it was her coworker was out of town at a wedding.

Any comments would be appreciated. thanks

[demonbuttercup]

Laker are you still w/ this same girlfriend from before?

if so then Im sure you already know the answer to your question.
She is selfish and has no respect for you or what you do for her. (ie cook,clean, take her to work, etc)

If this is a different girl, she sounds very similar to the previous g/f =\

Are you POSITIVE she doesn't like him?? I dont know sounds like she spends waaaay to much time w/ this dude.

[canoestripper]

I think Demon's right on the money. Something's wrong if she wants to hang around with this other guy all the time. It sounds like you're getting used. Bad.