my wife and my friend

[watchinherfukin]

For a while now i have had a fantasy about my wife and my bestfriend. One time he fingered her and it really turned me on. they only did it because practically begged them to. Last night he stayed over and we were all drunk. i suggested she give him head and she refused. When we were in bed she started rolling towards him and they ended up having sex. I was so turned on i jumped in her right after. She claims she was so drunk she thought it was me in bed the whole time. I really get turned on by this and am wondering if i should try to get them to do it again when they are sober. My goal would be to tape it so she wouldn't have to do it again because it upsets her sometimes. He also thought she was on the pillso he didn't wear a condom and blew it in her. I also blew it in her afterwards. She is highly against abortion and the morning after pill she is scared to explain why she needs it. If she was pregnant i would raise the kid as if it were my own and never tell them. Is this a wierd sexual desire to watch my wife with someone i trust?

[cindy18]

If she doesn't have a problem with it, and neither do u, i guess it is...

[HerPleasure06]

From what you’ve said it doesn’t really sound like she wants to do that, “were all drunk. i suggested she give him head and she refused”……” she was so drunk she thought it was me in bed the whole time.”

It’s completely up to you what you pressure her to do. Tread lightly though because this could create a lot of problems with your relationship if it’s not something she wants. You also said she is against the morning after pill and abortion. most of the time I hear that it is a very religious background creating that view. I don’t know for sure, just speculation…but if religion is the reason I’m rather sure that adultery isn’t condoned by those beliefs either.

Every one has their own desires yours isn’t really abnormal. What’s important is your not hurting other people to achieve your desires

[lilly2279]

Talk to her when she is sober.

Ask her if she is willing to do have sex with your friend again. If she says no, believe it and don't ask again.

Ask her how she feels now knowing what she did while drunk. If she is ashamed, do not set that situation up again.

Do not tape her having sex with him unless she agrees to it when she is sober. Period.

[JustTrying2BeAGOODBoyfriend]

hmm... what everyone else said... lol... im not entirely comfortable with the whole "sharing with a friend" buisiness.... i guess its an aquired taste...

[WallyLlama]

I would say there's no accounting for what some people enjoy sexually... and, by and large, if everyone agrees and understands the consquences... no harm, no foul.

However.

Wanting (being willing) to raise another man's child is a huge trade off for pressuring your wife and friend into doing something once so you can tape it, it my opinion.

Sounds like this is about one person, not three. I vote "no" for the sake of the wife and the friend. If the three of you are not capable of getting the facts on the table and having an adult conversation about it, you're not entitled to engage in a clearly "adult" behavior.

The very fact you want to tape it so she doesn't have to do it again pretty much screams this is not something worth pursuing. I'd suggest you give some thought as to why watching her do this is important to you. (That it turns you on a lot is not a very good reason.) That's much more interesting than her religious background, because what you want is SO important that you are willing to risk everything for one video tape.

[Tessie]

I’ve been the wife whose husband hounded her to have threesomes. I gave in to keep the peace and make him happy, even when I never wanted to. The only way I did was to get drunk out of my mind and not really have any memory of it.

If your wife was into this she would be excited and talk about it. I’m getting a divorce soon because really this was the final straw. I suggest you respect your wife more then that and stick to your fantasies or you might not like the consequences.

This is not a weird sexual desire. Many people have it and do it. I just really hope your wife doesn't do it just to satisfy your desires. I would hope you want her to be just as excited about it as you. After all your talking about her having sex with someone else. That is a very personal thing for most women.

Also, you say you would be willing to raise the kid if she got pregnant. That's big of you, but is that fair to the child? I would hate to have to explain that conception night.

[Starbuck]

Personaly I think you are messing with disaster . What if she starts liking him more than you and starts meeting him on the sly.? (with out you )
I know of a woman that had a 3 some and her hubby was trying to meet this friend or hers seperatly.
Now she caught him cheating on her with some other gal. Shes really sorry she started this stuff . See what I mean?
Mike

[mssassypants]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (Starbuck @ July 19 2005,01:15)]Personaly I think you are messing with disaster . What if she starts liking him more than you and starts meeting him on the sly.? (with out you )
I know of a woman that had a 3 some and her hubby was trying to meet this friend or hers seperatly.
Now she caught him cheating on her with some other gal. Shes really sorry she started this stuff . See what I mean?
Mike

I agree with Mike. If you share her with your friend or any other man, you better be prepared to be kicked out of the circle, and the only one to blame it on is you.

[Acid_Burn]

its not a problem if she is also into it but i wouldent force her to she could be thinking that its cheating so just sit her down and talk about it