on masturbating

[Roywyn]

after reading an old topic on this board, my fiance and I got to talking about if men think about their g/f (or fiance's/ wifes/ significant others) when they masturbate. he, after a little prodding, admited to thinking of other women. and of course I'm alright with that. annoyed a bit maby, but, I understand. even I will admit to thinking of other men during masturbation. but my question is, what happens if they say somthing like, I love that chick... well used to at least. should I be more concernd than not? and are other couples finding this comming up in their relation ships as well?

[robby]

yes I think of other people from my past during masturbation. I haven't done it in front of my wife before but even so mentally I'm in a different place when it happens. I asked her once before if she does it and she said she did a long ime time ago and doesn't masturbate any longer.

[Starbuck]

I'm a guy and from what I know guys dont think of anyone in particular but just something "hot looking" in thier imagination or seen on the net or a magzine.

[Trivium]

im sorry, but im a little confused, what are you concered about Roywyn?

[Skyby]

with the exception of past experiences sometimes, I usually dont concentrate on a person but what is being done to me or Im doing