fantasy-roleplaying

[steve1234]

i fantasize over my wife using her toys. i also would like some help on getting her to role-play with me. in the past she would, and she loved her toys i thought. when i meet her she was dating my friend and we would go out on double dates. at the end of the night we all would end up in a hotel room drinking and playing games. then the lights go out(some of them) and me and my date would watch them go at it. she would do it all. she did ask me once if i'd like to join in and have a threesome. then when we started to date i asked her if she would try using a didlo with me and she said yes. we used it often, so i bought another one little bit bigger and longer. now that we're married for 6 years and with two kids, when i ask her if we can use her toys she mostly says no, only you. i have told her a few times i like to watch her take on her toys, and i also told her i would like to have her hold one up to her mouth while i finish on her face. she did it once and i exploded.(she often lets me but with out a toy there). i also have asked her to name them but she refuses to do that??? she won't tell me why.
an i wrong to ask her to use her toys.
what should i do, any help please!!.

[Tessie]

Try setting up the bedroom before hand for some "toy fun" Just have them out and ready for her.

What's with all the asking? Sometimes you just got to dive in and do. Put it in her hand or use it on her.

As for naming them. Beats me why she won't. I have a Tom, Denzel, Brad and Big Boy.

[WallyLlama]

Hmmm. You're pretty clear and specific about what you want.

What does she want? The reality is this sort of stuff is only going to work if you BOTH enjoy it... We can debate forever whether or not she SHOULD do what gives you pleasure, but that isn't going to change the fact that she's not.

Maybe, for example, she doesn't want to name her toys because she somehow feels that would be introducing another "person" into your lives.

I'd suggest putting aside the toy issue for a while and finding out what sort of things might appeal to her and making a few happen.

[Tessie]

That is good advice too Wally.

I might be bias because of my love of “Toys”