some help please

[DizzyGal]

my boyfriend who i havent seen in 3 months who i have a sexual relationship with for 2 years is coming back in a few days and i would like the night that he comes back that we will spend together to be special and i was wondering the night we will be sleeping together do i wear a sexy night dress? a see though red thingy? or plain shorts and a top? also it would be nice if anyone can tell me how to go about the sexual thing. is there anything i can do to make this night special for him something i can try? it seems we tryed everything already and we both want to do something different although not too kinky something that involves only me and him. any advice will be appreciated!

[maggies54]

Best to keep it simple. Let the emotions of your heart guide you, not the over expections of the "special night".

If,he has had to travel any distance he maybe tired. If you do to much the day of his arrivial you too may end up tired.

There are many factors to look at ...

What time of the day or evening is going to be home. Will anyone else be meeting him or need to see him before you have alone.( I don't know why he has been gone or were he has been )
He has been gone for 3 months, there maybe a lot more to talk about than to do at first.

Many honeymooners are so tired, that on their wedding night they do not even make love. The wedding, recepection, the airline flight to where ever... etc.... Sad, but true. But then they get a bit "heartbroken" ... they were just too tired ! It was what was expected to happen and didn't.


Wear something you are comfortable in. Remember most all of our " sexy" little things come off in under 5 mins.

I am not saying nothing special, just keep it simple. Depending on the factors and then some that may play into your day/evening.

[DizzyGal]

he has been away for his studies. unfortunatelly that night his parents brothers and best friend will all be there as well. and he is arriving at 1 in the morning you are perfectly right he will be exhausted by the time we are alone but i know he will be excited to see me and all.so for about an hour we will be talking with his family and friend of course then we will be alone. maybe its best we just have some lazy romantic sex. its just after not doing anything for so long i dont want him to tired to realize how tight i am after no sex or penetration at all after so long. the thing is its the only night we can spend together if we put it off for another day it will have to be an afternoon and i hate having sex with his family around the house it makes me not want to take my clothes off and we cant affored an apartment and he cant come to my house because i feel extremelly uncomfortable. thats the only night ill be able to give him my all and if its ruined by him beeing tired i dont know what to do. he wont be too tired to get hard thats for sure he can always get it up! ill be casual i guess just wear some tight jeans and a sexy top so im casual and sexy at the time time! and i will just wear plain shorts and a tight top to bed.

[maggies54]

pretty panties & bra set ... ?

[DizzyGal]

ill definetely wear a lacy black thong and black bra i just wanted to wear something on top so he doesnt get everything at once.