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Old 06-08-2005, 05:48 AM
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Ok I’ll start from the top, Me and my girlfriend decided to brake up, but we still had feeling for each other, so we wanted to get back together when school was out *(don’t ask why) and we agreed not to see anyone while we were apart. Now school’s out and every things going great she says she wants us to be together for the rest of our lives get married and she wants me to be her first. I’m like ok that’s good because I love this girl, but last night she called me and told me that she had sex with someone the day before school was out. I told her to call me back because I didn’t want to say what I wanted to say to her cause right now I’m very mad. So how do I handle this without telling her what I want to tell her? (trust me it’s not nice). BTW i'm 16 and she's 17
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Old 06-08-2005, 06:53 AM
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I'd go with telling her what you want to tell her!

Well, try not to lose your temper... don't say things you'll later regret, but you are not going to have a good relationship with her (or anyone else) if you don't state your feelings and allow them.

I don't pretend to understand the history of your relationship with her or the logic for breaking up with an agreement not to see others while you're "broke up." Not important that I understand, but you need to understand exactly what your relationship is! Frankly, it sounds like you are going to be the summer boyfriend.

Gotta give her credit for honesty, though. I guess.
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Old 06-08-2005, 08:40 AM
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I agree with what Wally says. I would talk to her about the entire situation, about breaking up but not seeing other people, about her breaking that agreement, figure out what your relationship is exactly. It seems like you are a backup bf, and thats not fair to you. Give yourself time to cool down and then talk to her, face to face preferably, and after hearing what she has to say, make your decision. Good luck.
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Old 06-08-2005, 06:44 PM
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Move on. Forget her. There is much living ahead of you.
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Old 06-10-2005, 11:48 AM
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16? 17? if only i was that young again, move on, really, theres alot of living you have to do
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