cumming too quickly

[lakers fan]

hi, my girlfriend and i have been together for a good while now, and we have stopped using condoms. The sex has been great, but there is a problem, i now cum was too fast when having sex. i feel real bad because i am not always able to get her off because i have cum so quickly, and i spoil the mood and she gets quite mad with me. So i guess im asking, is there any tips on how to last longer, without cumming too fast? any particular lubes or anything? any advice would be helpful thanks.

[NYSatinLover]

Hi,

Go to the drug store, any one of them and find the Stay Creams... they will numb your sensations and make you last longer.. the other way would be to masturbate before you have sex with her... maybe a few hours before will help.

[Don_One]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (lakers fan @ Mar. 31 2005,16:37)]hi, my girlfriend and i have been together for a good while now, and we have stopped using condoms. The sex has been great, but there is a problem, i now cum was too fast when having sex.

so why don't you put the condoms back on? unless you're trying to impregnate her.

this topic has been covered extensively. these are just the results for "premature ejaculation", not to mention "cumming too quickly", etc. and this is the article that addresses it.


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Sex, Toys, and Videotape

[steve1234]

i hhave the same problem, i like to use toys on my wife to get her up to her climax then i start so she can finish.

[Starbuck]

Wish i had that problem. I can stay hard for ever but its so darn hard to orgasam as you get older. But when I do -oh my god. Sex got better for me now in my 50s. We sometimes just wear each other out. LOL *but some of it might be the anti depressents i'm on. they can make a sexual athlete out of you. (other wise you can go a long time but not cum. ) but this can be dissapointing . *anyway they do sell numbing cream you can put on your self on some of the sex toy sites so you wont cum so quick. *

[badtimeguy]

i recently found a technique by accident. Instead of thrusting so much in and out of your girl, try to chill out. Yes, condoms dull sensation as do numbing creams, but neither are romantic or sexy and take a time to put on and by then the mood is broken.
ok, put it in....pull it out...go slow for a few minutes if you can....you need to turn her on with oral or manual or whatever....make sure she is lubed up and turned on...the vagina expands when shes really hot so it will feel looser to you. then, put it in and dont try to pull it out so much when you thrust. the head of your penis is the most sensitive part and if you get it too close to her tight vaginal opening instead of her now expanded vaginal canal, its going to be too late for you. try rubbing her clit with your body more and just dont pull your dick out so far when you're pumping her.
good luck!!!