She's too "clingy"

[Ragnarok]

okay, I recently posted about how my girlfriend was being clingy, and here's how I feel about the relationship

I love this girl, but it seems like she has too sides.

Theres the normal human side, which is the one I love, I could talk to that one all day, shes funny, she jokes around all the time, she's different in a good way...esscentric, being weird, laughs a lot. This is how she acts around everyone.

Then theres the Intimate side, right now, that side im kind of scared of, if you read my previous post, you would know why but to sum it up, shes clinginess to the point where its unhealthy.

And it's those "I can't believe its the same person" kind of thing.

I feel like I want to have a break with her, I think I need to be away from her to see if I really DO love her, but if I do that, I'll probably just lose her forever. and maybe it's the "friend" side that I'm really in love with.

I've been thinking to myself, do I LOVE her as a companion or do I Love her as a lover? (I hope you understnad what I'm saying)

Input please!

[WallyLlama]

Hmmm.... why start a new thread? The information from the original is important in these questions as well...

Personally, I've never understood the logic of "taking a break" from someone to determine if you really love that person.

Sometimes knowing the right question is more important than having the right answer.

Peel the onion back one more layer. I think I do understand your final question... there are times when we really don't like the person we love.

But the question I implied in the other thread is "Do you love her because she needs you so much?"

That would explain your desire for a "break," if you think about it.