Just Married

[tarandackr]

I am just recently married and we were wondering if anyone could give us tips on something. Now that were married we don't feel the need for me to have to "pull out" any longer, but my question is that after I cum inside her most of the time I want to continue with more sex. If we do so, the cum that is still inside of her starts making squishing noise and tends to get a little pasty after a while. This quickly puts a damper on the love making. I was wondering if anyone had any tips for us to keep going, besides pulling out of her the first time I cum. What do most married couples do? I'm sure that we could us some lubrication or something when it gets pasty. Does anyone have any suggestions on the type of lub that would best suit us? Any suggestions on this matter would be greatly appreciated.

[iamawesum69420]

What do you mean gets pasty?

My boyfriend and I will keep going after he cums inside me and we've never had a problem with it. The mixture of both of our cum kind of acts as a lube.

[mmparks]

Hm mIm wondering about the PASTY too.. we keep on going most of the time and there are no problems. Maybe KY or something...
Now if youre TRYING to get pregnant, be aware that some lubes are not sperm friendly

[cajdi2004]

But if you are not wanting to get pregnant, you still want some form of birth control!!

[demonbuttercup]

Im lost on the whole we are married...pull out thing

So you used the pull out method as your BC? but now you are married you want to have kids?
I am on BC pills and my b/f usually cums however he's in the mood. Usually he'll come inside, sometimes he won't, or Ill ask him to cum on me... there isn't really a specific way to do it.

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

caj, im confused along with you.. i dont see why it makes a difference if your married, unless you want kids? and like demon said.. there isnt a special way to do it.. I'd try lube if it gets pasty.

[WallyLlama]

I don't think the question is about pulling out or birth control.

I think the issue is that after cumming, things get a little, um, sloshy and ultimately sticky if they try to continue.

Without getting too graphic... I suspect the answer will be found in a short break and a large towel. Let things settle a bit - a lot will "run out," particularly if she stands up for a bit - dry things off and go again... you're probably both contributing to the "mess" and a little wipe up should help without ruining the moment.

[tarandackr]

Finally someone has answered my question correctly, thanks WallyLlama. The question was not about birth control or about "pulling out". It was just that it gets a little messy and sometimes it gets a little patsy, that was it.

[demonbuttercup]

We get that, so why didn't you just say that?
Instead you get off topic talking about since you are married you don't feel you should pull out, etc.