wife a sex monster?

[Rawbob]

Ok.....big learning experience!

You need to being incorporating "dirty talk" in your sex!

You need to talk to her like the black guys did sometimes!

ALSO, you MUST insist that there be a level of safty for any play.

It's damn near homocide to allow her to go to a hotel room, and let 5-8 unknown black guys show up and f*** her!

Even if you'er there, that many guys can pretty much TAKE what they want - and when you lose control of a fantasy ..people can get hurt. YOU AND HER!

What if they decide they don't want to use condoms? WHat are you and she gonna do? Threaten to call the police? With an ad in the paper or internet asking for a gang bang?

No, you need to spash her face with water, and wake her ass up! Yes, if she wants to live out that fantasy, she can, but with clear rules: Pre-screening, no-std's, CONDOMS, "stop" word (a word she can use anytime and they have to agree to stop. A photocopy of their drivers liscence or ID. ANd meet them all at a place before going to bed.

As far as your insecurities, guesss what buddy....the horse is out of the barn. You really can't say STOP now unless u both want to stop everything! You can only manage it!

[openminded]

yeah .... dirty talked before, but it's a difference when a stranger talks dirty to her... we talked about it and we agreed to meet them before... she got her first twenty replies to her add in the magazine... she made a choice for five blacks and she already called them... she's so obsessed with the idea... we will meet all five tonight in a bar and if she wants going further we go to a hotel room... 3 are friends and wrote us together ... the other they don't know each other ... we will see what will happen...

[yetagainsorrows]

If you don't like it tell her no and give reasons why. It's obvious that this is far from ok with you. So TALK.

[Alspals69]

She's right ya know, you need to talk

[iamawesum69420]

You definately need to talk to her. She probably doesn't even know how much her actions are bothering you.

[openminded]

I think we talkerd too much about it ... it doesn't bother me that she has sex with other men... I'm only concerned about she getting a nymphomaniac and she says for herself that she has a phase, she only thinks about sex. She said for herself she's addicted to the idea having withj strangers. anyway two days ago she had her gangbang with blacks ... one didn't show up there were still four men... she was lost during the two hours in sex. all four blacks had big penises and she enjoyed several double penetrations. she had a great time but you know the first thing she did when we returned.. she browsed through other replies from her add in the magazine to look for the next five blacks... after that we had SEX that isn't normal.

[iamawesum69420]

Well who's to say what's "normal"? Everyone's different and have their own thing.

[DugeonMaster]

As long as you don't mind, and she enjoys it, consider yourself a lucky man. I've been working with my wife for a few years now, and we ARE very very close., but I believe both parties have to want it....

so if your ok with it, and you do have some rules for safety, then JUST ENJOY!

[openminded]

I really enjoyed it. I kind of like it when she gets lost in sex. I work nightshifts in a factory and when I got home earlier on thursday because a machine broke and my chef said I could go home because there was nothing to do, I heard her moaning in our bedroom. then I heard voices from men. I discovered that she had sex with four guys (not black). to cut a long story short, instead of getting really angry (maybe a little) I got a hard on and I joined them. I recognized the guys from the club from the night she had her first gangbang. later when we were alone she told me that four times when I had nightshifts she had the same visit. I don't know anymore who needs help because I wasn't really mad at her because I guess I knew something like that went on, but I don't know where we heading at now... in the last month she had sex with over fifty men and the sick part of it I kind of like it only she agreed to no visits when I'm not at home

[Rawbob]

Well...i guess the big questions are:

1) Is she making the guys use protection? If yes, good, if NO, you are in deep shit! 50 men is actually her having sex with nearly 250 prior sexual partners!

2) Are you getting your sexual needs met? Or, does she only get off on gangbangs now?